going up to complete stranger, anyone done it here?

I lived in a commune in the Haight-Ashbury in the early 70's. One day, a young women came to my room and struck up a conversation. She was (I hope) 18 years old. I was 20 years old. She was very attractive. As we were talking, she upbuttoned her jeans, pulled down her panties, and asked me if I thought she had scabbies. I did not see anything that looked like scabbies, but I thought it was an invitation for sex. I asked her if she wanted to "get-it-on." She said yes. We climbed up to my bed (it was in a loft) and she proceeded to go down on me. From there, it was the wildest sex I ever had. She really knew how to use her vagina. I cummed liked never before and since. I saw her again a couple of times but we never had sex again. I did not want to get into a relationship with her because I was afraid she would have sex with anyone who suited her fancy. I look back on that and question whether or not I made the right decision. I could have had continual excellent sex. Oh well, you live and you learn.

Peace

Spud

 

It was the times Spud. That happened to me on so many occasions in the early '70s.

That was the beauty of sexual liberation, girls got it on like guys. None of that coy "chase me" crap that girls in other times played, but admittedly wanting sex and putting out for the fun of it.

Something like:
"We'll sing in the sunshine, y'know we'll laugh every day - then I'll be on my way."

 

It depends, I could probably get certain gay men from first sight, to bed in a few minutes. Men are so overt and easy. Getting women into bed is another thing, at least in my opinion.

 

That's almost a truism. It is why, tho I have identified for years as bi I am actually gay by default.

I'm not a player any more don't do the chasing that once consumed me when younger. However, you don't have to chase guys. Just meet 'em and find a place to have sex. It's sort of a turn on to have guys approach you, but sometimes a nuisance.

(BTW, grimjivey, ur kinda cute. Would u consider a nice backrub from an old grampa? )

 

Your not quite old enough to be my grandpa, but I'm not really bi, well maybe sometimes, but right now I'm concentrating on women.
They're just so... feminine, and delicious.

 

BTW, Calente. I think you're kind of cute. Would you consider a back rub from an old guy? lol.

 

i did.

we dated for 3 years.

 

its easy, in a bar or club or something.. alcohol helps the confidence level... or if it ended bad it could ease the pain lol ...

 

Hey, that's my line!

Caliente, I was here first. (about seven years earlier than Spud). Dibs on the back rub!

 

believe me this is not just something in the movies. it happens and it works.

 

Before HIV became a big deal, sure, I hooked up with strangers at college parties. Since then, no way.

 

Come on over, guys

 

Hold on, I'm coming! Can you give me those directions again?

 

Turn left at the cactus.

 

Turn left here?

 

At parties, easiest and bestest.
I believe 3 girls now I've randomly made out at parties without knowing them.

First one was at some party at a girl's house I didn't know. I just went up to her and said she was hot (I was completely sober at the time) then we totally made out hardcore all night. My friends I went with were so jealous. I'm not even good looking (imo)

Second time, my friend's co-worker had a party at her house for her birthday. She gave me a smile and later when I hugged her, we made out for a long time, and I've been with her for a while after, by doing the whole "You can have my phone number, but I won't take yours. You call." haha.

Third was like, 2 weeks ago? Hmm.
I've also went up to random people at school/mall and asked for number. Some times it doesn't work cause they're taken, but if they are I joke-laugh it off.

Oh yeah. My first post @_@

 

Stick around and make more.

We can always use ppl here who can string a few words together to make a sense sentence.

 

I have never done it myself, I'm way too shy to talk to someone if we havent been introduced by someone else. Of course, I got married at 20 after only three semi-serious relationships, so who knows what I'd do these days?

Ive had lots of women come up to me with various propositions, but I am a musician so it goes with the territory. My wife is always there to nip that in the bud of course, not that I would ever fuck around anyway. Sometimes the chick will be like "Even better! lets all go party!" but the wife aint hearing it

 

I randomly met a guy 10 years older than me on the last night of a cruise. He invited me into the hot tub and we ended up making out and he fingered me. Then we went back to his room and I gave him head, unfortunately he didn't have a condom (he was staying with his Mom and Grandma who were in the casino at the time, so he wasn't prepared lol), otherwise we would have definitely had sex.

 

I guess I am realizing that I always do this. But I have never had any luck at a bar. But since I don't drink, I rarely find myself in a bar to ask.

BUT, I do have an experience that might fit perfectly. I met a woman on an airplane and ended up with my fingers in her pussy within a couple of hours. None of our conversation ever gave me any indication that it was OK, and the whole time I was freaking out about whether her body language was telling me what I thought I was seeing/hearing. Over the period of 3 hours, my fingers went from the waist band of her jeans, up into her bra, and then down into her panties. She ended up haveing a not so quiet orgasm and creaming my fingers. Her legs/waist was covered by the airline blanket, and I found her jeans unzipped before I put my hands there. Her feet were in my lap, which we had agreed on. Everything else just happened. I thought she was faying sleep, but turns out she was asleep and dreaming that I was doing it.

Once I realize that I could have gone to jail, I was really kind of freaked out. But we exchanged numbers and have talked a few times since. It was 4 years ago, and we keep talking about getting together to finish what we started. Maybe one day... she is so sexy, hot.

But, I would not do that again, not without verbal confirmation.