By married homosexual couples, are there rolls one does and the other doesn't. I hate old fashioned gender rolls, yet I'm curious, are there any by you people?
I really am somewhere in the middle when it comes to gender. I have male equipment but quite a few female like features. Inside me, my soul, I am definitely both. From as far back as I remember there have been people who mistook me for female. When I was a boy & into adolescence, it used to bother me a lot but in my 20's I started accepting it & eventually embraced it. Embracing my androgynous self was the best thing I could do. My spirit has been free ever since.
Are you trance? I'm curious.....I never saw someone that's trance before....that's REALLY interesting!
If I am understanding your question correctly. I haven't had M2F reconstruction surgery & most likely wouldn't.
snowdancer...i absolutely love your picture...you are absolutely adorable (assuming that is indeed you)...i've been meaning to say that for some time...what a cutie...i love your expression as for the gender roles um...i'm not married...but in my relationships i've found that niether of us will fall into a specific gender role...i try to remain natural and if an aspect of me is characteristically male or felmale...so be it.
I agree, no defined gender roles in my relationships. I wouldn't want it any other way, but, I must admit, it would sometimes be easier to have define roles...
Different couples are different. Some couples--usually older folks--are really heavily into roles, and others just can't be bothered with them. What matters is what is right for you and your partner. Don't forget; there are some heterosexual couples who are not into roles either.
Male 2 (to)Female reconstructive surgery is a fairly common thing these days. I personally know 3 people who have done this or are doing it. I think I have met a few others but didn't know them well enough to consider asking them. I'm surprised you haven't heard of it. Now that I have your clarification of Trance I guess I would have to say possibly. I am refered to with female pronouns quite a bit of the time even if I am not wearing traditionally female cloths.
OK,if a girl likes a girl it's because she looks and acts like a girl right, thats a lesbian. and a homosexual, a man, likes men, so why would you want to take gender roles. you like someone for who they are, surgery and hormones are bullshit ( no offense), you are who you are and the role of a man or a woman shouldn't matter right. For me its not about sex even though its cool. I care about this girl so much that I wouldn't even want to embarras her or myself with sex. If I did have sex with her though I would have to know exactly what to do and I don't really I think. I've had orgasms with a girl before but that was someone else that knew what they were doing and I didn't even have to take my clothes off. I think gender roles force us as gay people to decide what gender we want to be when it shouldn't even matter, people are people right.
I thoght homosexual means both, girl X girl and guyXguy. Anyways, I don't have anything against you guys....see 'the irony of it...'( http://hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=37151 ) thread and look at my posts. I can't stand the whole anti-gay people...it really makes me sad. What I mean is, say, if two would get married, would one cook the other clean etc? It's just curiosity, I wanna know more about that....sorry if the wrong message came through...
any relationship i have, whether it be platonic or something more, will be equal. i might cook and my partner might clean but that will havo nothing to do with the gender of either of us. I don't even know which gender i am... my sex is female and i like being a girl but in terms of actual gender, if it was a scale, i'd be somewhere towards the middle... i have traditionally male personality traits... I've always gotten on very well with guys cos i think a bit like them... it's like i'm the 'translation' between guys and girls for a lot of my friends.
