What are guys looking for in a girl? I know this is different for all guys, but... What would be your perfect girlfriend? Do you even WANT a girlfriend, or would you rather just be with a girl without the label. When looking for a girl, how much is it about her personality, and how much is it just the desire to fuck her???
Men are hunter/gatherer types. Papa birds. They need a secure home to protect and provide for. They need a pat on the head after working hard all day to make it happen. People will always judge you physically first. That's just the way humans are. People with a little more depth will learn to appreciate people despite their imperfections. Love is truely blind. Don't worry about the type of person you will attract. Be yourself first. People who are self confident are sexy even in a dark room. x
Not every guy just wants to fuck. Yes, 99.9% of all straight men think of sex with random women all the time, in their dirty little minds. But what a lot of men really want is a girl they can trust, you can say guys lie just as much, but what do you say about the honest guys? I never cheated on a girl and I generally told every girl I dated my true opinion on this and that. I always wanted a girl who was just as honest, a girl to say one of my favorite movies is shit and I can be able to say some of her music rapes my ears. And we still be in love. THAT'S what every decent men is looking for. Not the fake shit so many people put on.
well personally I want a girl who shares my interests, who loves me for who I am, respects my way of life, and is willing to live that life with me. I want a girl I can sit down and talk to like a person, a girl who enjoys sittin' out under the stars with me watchin' all the beauty around us. Stuff like that, quality time, and of course I love to have sex but thats not a neccesary part
i agree. i don`t necessarily need sex, but if it happens, so be it. it will just be a next step. actually i`ve gone a couple weeks living under the same roof w/ a woman i just met & we both want each other quite badly. she`s actually never been kissed on the neck before & was quite impressed by it. i told her it was a kinda beginning toward tantric type which she`d never heard of either. we`ve moved quite slowly w/ this. we don`t even sleep beside each other yet. she`s still kinda scared to. not that she`s worried i`ll do anything more, just that she may wanna do more. all her relationships before were abusive, & my recent one was too. but she`s trusted me this far. she`s promised we will bathe together @ some point, tho with clothes on). i made a bold move & slept a few feet away from her & she didn`t object. @ first we were in different rooms & neither of us could sleep that way. & we occasionally lose sleep because we`re not right beside each other. she`s slowed up quite a bit on the neck-kissing though. it`s gotten quite intense a couple times.
I don't want to fuck lots of women, I just want to fuck one woman lots...lol I'm looking for someone willing to build with me. All the women I date what it all right now and don't see the big picture...guess what ladies...if you want a man with money, don't date the artsy set. Oh...and I'm looking for a petite pot smoking sweety in Toronto...and takers?? lol
My perfect girlfriend wouldn't start shit with me. She'd be self-sufficient and would be with me because she wanted to be. She'd be a capable independent thinker and have good looks to boot. But the desire to fuck is overwhelming. When I look for dating candidates physical attraction is a must. I know some really nice girls with a lot of love to give, I just can't handle 300 lbs of love and rolls upon rolls of affection. But most of all, what all men want, is a girl who's willing to give head. :cheers2:
I want it all. Great sex is important, but I couldn't spend years with somebody who had nothing interesting to say. To build something that lasts for years, there has to be common interests and values. That is harder to find than great sex. It seems absurd that I need to say this, but it is also very important to find a woman who truly likes men. I don't just mean sexually. A lot of women are physically attracted to men, but spend many hours a week talking to other women, complaining about everything that men do, say, and think. That makes me wonder if they are as heterosexual as they claim to be. They are not following a path that leads to success and happiness with men. The perfect girl also has a positive attitude. She knows that nothing important or worthwhile is easy, so she is prepared to put serious effort into the relationship, year after year. Spoiled brats need not apply.
Same here mate. I like it when girls are honest, makes you feel you can trust them totally! Me personally, i like girls with some looks ofcourse, decent body (obese girls don't catch my attention sadly - i'm a sports guy so....), a good girl who doesn't cheat, doesn't party much (don't mind family party), a polite girl and a decent sense of humour. Heck, i throw a lot of jokes so if they don't have a sense of humour, me and them won't get along well. lol I'm a sports man so they have to expect me to have quite a bit of time away from them. i make it clear to them as well that i love my sport badly and them aint stopping me one bit from playing it - i'm quite honest with them.
I'm not a guy, but I find most just dig a girl who's just truly herself. I mean, hell, you're not going to attract every male you come across, so why try? Just be you and let your personality and your true self do the attracting.
