Waiting for marriage

Well, if I was really compatable with a girl and we really hit it off, I could see myself marrying her in 6 months, which wouldn't be that long of a wait.

But I've been seeing my fiance for a while and our engagement is looking to be around 2 years, so if we weren't having any sex I'd probably explode lol.

I mean do you really want to be with a guy for 2 years and have him masturbating to porn?? Really?

lol

 

Its too late for me to wait now, but if I could go back and re do my choice to have sex I probly would wait, now when it comes to waiting untill marriage with the girl I am currently with (which I'm single atm) I'll wait and wait happily if she really wants to. As long as there's an occasional bit of foreplay to appease my appetite

 

Traceroni "If he's a good guy, he'll respect that" - true.

Oxymorph "You sound lame as fuck. No guy in this day and age is gonna want to marry a virgin just to find out the sex is complete crap. I know i or any of my guy friends would not want to marry someone (or even be in a relationship with someone) if there is no sex involved!" - You’re an ass !!

NotDeadYet "Cali, have you noticed that we're starting to sound like an old married couple? Half the time, we don't agree on shit, but nobody gets mad!" - you’re a sweet man - cheekyyyyyyy… but sweet

MaximusXXX "I mean do you really want to be with a guy for 2 years and have him masturbating to porn?? Really?" - eewwwww mental picture in my head lol

Indy Hippy "I'll wait and wait happily if she really wants to. As long as there's an occasional bit of foreplay to appease my appetite" - I think we would get a long

Tisha Mc – Do what feels right for you sweetie…..

 

she's not lame for havin different ideals than you..as hard as you may think it is to believe..not all people are like you...of course in your world everyone has your opinion and lives life like you...grow up///Tish i know i joked at first but i would never say your lame for your descision////good luck

 

Tisha, you will probably find a guy somewhere down the road who wouldn't mind at all waiting for you. However such a decision to wait does lower your potential hubby suitors. Then again I guess that works in your favor by narrowing down the gentlemen who can respects your values. Good to know that the guy you are waiting for acknowledges the "gift" that you are giving him.

My $.02

 

Tisha mc, just come to my parts of the world and we can live. I'm surely all open for a girl like you so don't worry, there are one or two guys out there who won't mind you although they should be hard to find.

 

Thank you for all the kind posts. I know that it will be very hard to find a guy that is willing to wait. But good things are worth the wait. I know I will be and I believe he will be too. I worked with a girl whose guy friend said that if I was for real, then I was worth the wait. And I've been told similar things by other guys too. Plus, I know myself. I'm no dud prize. lol I will stick to my convictions. I know that I would regret it for the rest of my life if I gave in, no matter how good the sex was. Again, you've been so very kind, much better than the posters on the other site that I asked this on.