[edit] I haven’t been with a man before so I am curious as to what one could experience during their first time – what it was like… it will help me better understand what I could expect. There’s nothing more scary then the unknown - the whole idea of it makes me nervous and tense. so would you mind taking a few minutes to help a girl out… it could be useful for future reference if you know what I mean The questions below are written as if a girl was answering - but guys if you were a girls first, feel free to answer on her behalf – I would like to know what it was like for you too – going through that with her….. How old were you? How old was he? Did your partner know you were a virgin? Where did you lose it? Describe the moment. What kind of relationship did you have with this person? (friend? bf/gf? Fiancé? wife? etc) When and how did you break your hyman? Were you afraid you were going to bleed during your first time having sex? How long after your first time of having sex did you stop being sore? Was your experience like doing it for the first time? (rough? enjoyable? both?) Did you cry? How long did the session last? Did you orgasm when you had sex the first time? How did you feel right before it happened? How did you feel afterwards? How did he react having this experience with you? Was it spontaneous thing or was it planned? Do you still see the person that took your virginity? Do you regret it? Any final memories? flashbacks? ‘if only this planned...’ kind of thoughts? Any advice for first timers? Thanks for going down memory lane with me…