What would be a good way for me to get to the girl I like. I have given her a very nice card and added to it what I see in her and thats all good. she is very kind hearted and a wonderful young lady. i would do anything to have her as my own to love the rest of the days of our lives. she knows what I like and see in her but i dont know whatelse to say or do to get to her. I need to know what to do. Am also hurting over her in a big way. please reply. I need to go cuz am about the cry again. I cant just come out and tell her I like her more then she thinks..............
Don't cry. Take that emotion and take to a craft. Learn how to do something impressive, it can be something little like playing a song on the guitar or juggling. Show her what you're really made of. But it's important not to let out the whole "I would do anything..." speech because then you seem desperate. And if a girl thinks you're desperate and you're interested in her that's not a really good boost to the self-esteem and won't really make things between you work well. Don't just come out and tell her, what you need to do is just talk. Talk for like 2 hours if you can. At the end of it, if you've been charming or witty, if conversation flowed well between you and things seem right then you just need to go for it. Then one of two things will happen, most likely: a. You get the girl. b. You don't get the girl, things are weird for a little while, and then you move on. But don't just hold it in man that's torture.
Yeah, don't come off as desperate at all. You want to let her know that you have an interest in her, but if she's not going for it, it's no big deal. (Even if it is... you'll get over it.) Try just talking to her. Find out about her life, her friends & family, her interests. "Tell me more" is good when you're stuck without anything else to say. Try to make her laugh but not with corny jokes you've memorized. Be natural and be yourself. Don't make it look like you're trying too hard.
