K, i need some help, there is a girl i like and i talk to her pretty often, but she is really busy with school/work but seems like she wants to hang out in her spare time [has only happened once so far] but the problem is....i never have much to say, over IM i ask her how her day was how was school etc. then the convo gets dull and repetetive, what else can i say?!?!? also how can i tell if she wants to be more than friends without being blunt about it
I think what you need to do, is release your inner pointlessness!! You''ll never run out of things to say when it's all pointless anyway!!
I'm no Dr. Phil, but if the conversation is getting dull and repetative already, I'm not to sure you should pursue her. It would be a dull and repetative relationship. If it's meant to happen it will. I think you need to build up some testicular fortitude and just ask her out as friends, and take it from there. Every good relationship should start out as best friends. Trust me, if she likes you the way you like her it will just happen.