Can anyone tell me HOW i can deal with this situation . And please by any means am i ever perfect in situations. My father is VERY Hypicritical. Okay first off, last night i came home from work and as soon as i walked through the door my step daughter thre up i mean everywhere--- where she seen she got bedroom -kitchen- litter box she got toilet- so my point is i cleaned. Today, however i did my homework, typed up my assignments watched my lil step daughter laundry dishes and i called my dad and he asked me what are you doing ? my response was i'm relaxing? he said oh must be nice? when i first called i asked so whats new ? he stated oh i'm working ? He knows i'm very busy but i don't know why he gives me a dishful of an attitude and on top of that hes putting of a "peace thing" whats that BS? when hes sarcastic to me. I stated to him, well you taught me well didn't you? Better being a smart ass than a dumb ass. Frig i really hate when PARENTS are like that with you . Esp when they know you are grown up and know what you are doing in life. Do you think its because i can make my own choices and i know my own boundaries maybe my dad is crabby? i dunno? I have (step kids ) but they are my kids at heart. Do you think, maybe he realizes i know everything i put him though? And MORE? i'm stuck in a rut? what should i do? i need advice ? I have medical problems if i don't speak with him , hes going to think somerthing is medically is wrong with me . i dunno . i hate ppl that send mixed mesages
^ be open and honest with him tell him how he makes you feel. I think that is the best you probably can do.
