ok iv never been with a guy, but met a spanish guy last week, and kissed him. (he, (like me) is completely in the closet) hes 33, im 21. He is extremely good looking and exactly the kind of man i find attractive! He says he feels the same way about me, but i just dont think iv got the confidence to take the relationship further. In a way, I feel like he's too goo for me- which although doesnt seem to be the case- it still worries me. Im very inexperienced, well completely for that matter when it comes to sex- i dont have much confidence about my body (im really slim, but not skinny if that makes sence) or penis size (its not that small!) I've been told im very good looking but personally dont feel confident with regards to my looks. (although i have a really strong and outgoing personality) So heres the thing, do I take it further with this guy? Tell him about my issues or worries? I really really like him-and id be crazy not to, hes amazing. Its the first time that something amazing has come to happen to me, but i cant get excited about it (you know, that inital 'loved-up' phase..) because i just dont think its gonna happen- but thats my fault if it doesnt! can anyone give any advice? kindly appreciated ;-)
oh you should also know- i live in spain (but am from the uk) studying here- but i intend to stay here after i finish in june!
I'm a 17 year old 'straight' female, so I'm not exactly an expert in this particular subject What I do know is that love is love. It crosses borders. A potential problem I see is the age difference (12 years?), but that's pretty easy to overcome. An actress once said, "no-one ever died from a broken heart, so put all your eggs in one basket and see what happens." What do you have to lose? If it doesn't end up working out, at least it was a learning experience. No regrets, right? But remember - you don't know this guy too well yet. Be a bit careful. He does sound fantastic though Personality beats looks any day by the way.