I posted this elsewhere, but wasn't sure where it belongs... I mean really, I'm almost 21 already and cower when I see a girl I think is pretty. I think it started because of a 4 year relationship I was in. I went from trying to pick up high school freshmen, to being a sophomore in college (junior now)...and I guess it doesn't help that I am really subconscious about my sexual performance (not size, elapsed time, even though it's not always bad). I feel kinda ridiculous posting about this but am not sure where else to turn, and I feel like I need someone to be with It's been a lonely couple of years with only a few partners, and only one that meant anything to me, but became waaaay too clingy and started making rules after a couple months, before we were even dating. Sorry, rant over. I would love if anyone can send me any advice. Peace and love!
You have fear because you're scared of getting rejected or laughed at, I'd say. But if you approach a lady with confidence and aren't an ass about it, the worst she can do is say she's not interested. But at least you tried. Some people make a game of it with their buddies. They'll go out and compete with how many times they can get rejected. And in the end, they usually end up with a few numbers. If someone's not interested it doesn't mean you're any less of a person. Just go for it.
Things change. The people aren't the same, and then the people are the same. Once the truth come to light certain know better than to walk into a plague (A DATE, A RELATIONSHIP). Sure to tell when they plan some thing out. Why? They must seek to get away concerning a certain detail. But to each an own. The guys which get the women... Ha! They apart of the plan some thing out route. They would like to think one begs when one already has. O, a fail seems a try reminds me of the movie They Live. No amount of words like lipstick should even lightly work on the hideous among.
pete, thanks for the reply. that sounds like a great idea for some free practice with no worries. i just really needed you guys to tell me im being an idiot, and its not a big deal, and that point has come across...snapped back to reality really. sign related...i cant read anything you wrote...
Hey man, no worries. Glad I could help. Btw if that pic is really you, you really don't have anything to worry about physicality-wise. You look fine and with the right attitude you'll be able to pick up a ton of chicks.
