Hey everyone! My new guy and I have a dilema that I would love to get some feedback on. I'm really short (barely 5 feet 1) and he is over 6 feet. He's a bigger guy than me by a long shot, so most of the time I need to be on top or we have to switch it up a lot so that I don't feel... well squished to be honest. We've tried a few different positions besides the obvious ones like missonary, doggie style, rodeo and cowgirl, etc. but the problem is always that I'm too short. My legs don't wrap all the way around him so girl on top positions are hard because I have to squat and after 5 minutes I'm super tired... if we go for doggie style, I have to be propped up on pillows so that he can get in there and it's hard to keep any balance that way... if I'm on my back I have to become elastic girl and put my legs all the way up over his head for him to get a good enough angle and then I feel squished. See the problem? Also, he's certainly adequate in size, but a little smaller than I'm used to and sometimes the more out there positions are hard because he slips out and whatnot. Does anyone have some ideas for us? I really like this dude but if our sex life doesn't improve I don't know how long it will last because we are both very sexual people and need to get it on a lot lol! He's super in to trying new things and is always willing to satisfy me, so I really do think if we could just find a way to have sex w/o these problems things would be great. HEEEEELLLLLLLP!
Try having him carry you, maybe up against the wall. There are many ways for you to be on top. Squatting is certainly not a good option. I find my shorter girls tend to really enjoy a spot where they're on top, their legs are together and mine are spread, and I help them slide back and forth with my hands. No thrusting from the guy on this one. Will stimulate your clit at the same time.. I'm not sure I've done a good job of explaining this. I guess any position where you can utilize your light weight and his strength would be good. Also, when you're on your back, can't you just spread'em as opposed to keeping them on his shoulders or whatever? Stretching exercises are good for flexibility
Have you tried laying down on your stomach and let him do you like that ? Kinda like doggy style but you are laying down
both are good ideas, thanks! We've tried a few of those before but I think if I smoke him up and get him in a good mood he'd be willing to try them again with a few variations. it's time to get creative yay! does anyone know if there's a website with sex position ideas or anything like that?