i had a girlfriend that had never tried anal before she was 22 i was 42 she and i went to a adult store and bought a vibe for her to see what it was like. Its funny that people say ask him to try it because thats what she said to me after she talked to her sister in law about it.So she said if you are willing to let me try it on you i will try so i said sure if thats going to make you feel better about it in the long run she loved it as a matter of fact she wanted to do it more that way than having me fuck her pussy what was great was that we would use vibe in her pussy while i was fucking her ass she would cumm 4 or 5 times from that.
It's not humiliating if you and your man both agree to it. I don't believe there's anything humiliating about anything sexual between two consenting adults who are choosing to enjoy each other in any certain way. Have fun, but be safe.
I would not have even asked you, I would have been eating your pussy, and when you were about to orgasm stick my tongue as far is it could go right in your ass, and before you could stop me, you would realize anal stimulation can give amazing and even more powerful climaxes than vaginal, and there would be no going back. That's how I turned all my girls out, once they see the pleasure from anal stimulation, they gave me that ass willingly. I don't force it on them, I let the pleasure speak for it self. I have never experienced a virgin woman's butt that was too tight for a wet soft warm tongue. Even if my cock is a little uncomfortable at first, that anal orgasm is burned into their memory, so they are willing to go through some discomfort (not pain) because they know the reward of a powerful anal orgasm trumps vaginal orgasms for most women. I actually had a woman almost black out one time from the pleasure and shock of an anal orgasm. Needless to say I got balls deep in that big ass many, many times. You catch a bee with honey. (bee=anus honey=rimming, with mind shattering orgasm) That's my formula for success. Many women are so turned off by the idea of anal, that you have to expose them to the pleasure of anal before you can stick it up their butt. Most woman would be horrified by the idea of surprise anal stimulation, until after you have done it, and they have that, "I can't believe you just did that, but it felt SOOO GOOD face." After this event I usually reply in an innocent tone, "You've never done anal before?" I actually had one of my gf's slap me in the face after this happened, and next time we had sex, she asked me in a coy almost embarrassed tone: "could you do that thing with your tongue that you did last time.", (I thought my plan had backfired), and then a grin came across my face from ear to ear , because I knew I had just created another anal whore. I even over heard her on her cellphone about our event that just happened, and she told her friend that it was one of the most amazing orgasms she had ever had. After that, I gave her an ultimatum, if you want me to keep rimming that ass, you have to give me a little anal, and then SHE had a grin on her face from ear to ear. And then once they experience an anal orgasm with a cock balls deep in their ass, they are hooked for life. They realize the tongue was just the tip of the iceberg in the world of anal pleasure. I have found that anal is like foreign exotic food, sometimes it doesn't sound or look appealing, but once you try it, you may realize you actually really really like it. I have used this formula successfully on 4 women, and I had anal with all 4 of them, and they all loved it, some even preferred it to vaginal like my gf that I have now. My first experience with anal was with a more experienced woman . I was not interested in anal at all, because I thought I would get shit on my cock and it would stink to high heaven. While riding me one day, she pulled my cock out of her pussy, and rammed deep in her butt, I had that famous, "I can't believe you just did that, but it feels so good face." After that I decided I would attempt the same with women, so I am not the originator of this marvelous formula. After that experience I was practically begging her for anal, I was hooked like a (butt)crack addict, and am proud of it.
aint humiliating to me...in fact just something that is even more intimate than plain ol sex. everyone has a butt, so what could be embarrassing about that?
Do what you feel is right, your mom sounds old fashioned and closed minded. You may have a bigger orgasm and find it easier to shit!
You must remember how sexual attitudes have changed over such a relatively short period - especially since the advent of the Internet. Previously people had kept their innermost fantasies secret, in the belief that they must be really mentally depraved to harbour such deep, dark thoughts. However, with the advance of technology everyone has access to all kinds of porn (perhaps, regettably, whether they want it or not), but they get to see that not only are they not alone in having these fantasies, but that they are, in reality, perfectly normal & acceptable. Once upon a time it was considered humiliating to purchase a packet of condoms, and would only be available as an under the counter item at the chemists or the barbers (anything for the weekend, sir, wink, wink), whereas now they are not only a totally acceptable everyday grocery item, but often something to be made available for free, by way of encouraging their usage. Yes, once upon a time it would be considered humiliating to be found to be carrying a pack, whereas these days it is considered a sign of respect. Times change - change with them.
if its something u are considering giving a try and are comfterable with then y would it be humiliating? i say go for it u might like it or u wont
humilliating for you boyfriend is that you tell your mom where your man wants to put his penis what is next? you also tell your mommy how big his boner is?
me and my mum chat about stuff to do with sex all the time. She bought me some porn and a sex toy on my 17 tv when she was worried I was 'undereducated'
im currently battleing with my girlfriend that she feels its okay for me to go down on her, but she refuses to do the same to me because she says its humiliating wtf... so i feel your pain...
There isnt anything humiliating about it. Seriously, its just anal sex. How is it degrading? Youll actually enjoy it if you do it right. Start with some ass play before moving on to it. And dont listen to your mom, Every girl has there own sexual needs and fantasies. And they are all different. And to the people that say he has to try it. Thats Fucked up. Some guys actually do have problems with getting anal, it crosses a line and makes normal men insecure and uncomfortable. We wouldnt be humiliated we would just feel gay, and we dont like to feel that way. Girls dont have that issue. Now if the guy wants that, then go for it. Thats why sexual communication is so important. But dont not do it because he doesnt want to do it. Thats stupid. The point is, youll both enjoy it, if he cares about you, hes not doing it to humiliate you.
