Okay this is gonna be a drawn out story, but I was kind of looking for advice. Okay let me start off from the beginning I have a friend named nick he is one of my best friends and his ex-girlfriend meghan who I have known for just as long and one of my best friends they are still friends. Nick wants a relationship with Meghan and she doesn't want one with him. They were broken up for about a year and she started "hooking up" with one of his friends and when he found out he stopped talking to him and was pissed at Meghan for a while but still remained friends. The person she was hooking up with started going for another girl and she was upset. I had strong feelings for her a while and thought she was the coolest girl ever.Well the night she found out that the guy she was screwing was with another girl, she was crying and I comforted her and we kissed etc... and we started dating. Well we kept it a secret from Nick cause well frankly he's insanely jealous and bigger then me which inevitably leads to me getting beat up haha. I do love this girl more than anyone she is the only person that makes me happy but I also don't want to hurt Nick. I am kinda lost just looking for advice.
Oh yea I realize this is all teen non-sense and I always promised myself I wouldn't be one of those people who complain about their relationships to everyone, But at this moment of my life right now it's kind of a big deal to me.
If you want to preserve the friendship with Nick, have a chat with him. How does Meghan feel about you? Seems like you're a rebound guy, and I would wager if the friendship is strong, she might not be worth it.
If you truly love this girl you'll take the beat down. Just be ready to get your ass kicked everytime you fall in love, loser.
