I regret opening up to people

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  1. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

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    Everytime I let people know how I really feel I regret it. There is one person that I wish I had never confided in because I don't trust them at all.

    I should just be a crazy hermit.

    What do you regret?
     
  2. TheChaosFactor

    TheChaosFactor Senior Member

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    Nothing, any more. I can't worry about what I've done. It takes too much time away from what I'm doing. I've accepted that I've made some mistakes and just push forward.
     
  3. MaryJBlaze

    MaryJBlaze eleven

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    I always regret confiding in people, it makes me feel weak and vulnerable....

    being a crazy hermit isn't so bad...you get used to it:cheers2:
     
  4. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

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    Yeah that's how I feel. It's bullshit. I have to watch what I say around that person now. :mad:
     
  5. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    I don't think I really have any regrets anymore. Everything happens for a reason, and my one big regret had a positive outcome in the end, so, yeah.
     
  6. TheChaosFactor

    TheChaosFactor Senior Member

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    First kid? (sorry if I'm wrong)
     
  7. spirit of the night

    spirit of the night Senior Member

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    I regret sooooooo much, most recently telling my boyfriend that I love him.

    But I have to tell myself that everything happens for a reason.

    Maybe I am lying to myself, but that possible lie stops me from killing myself.

    Blessings
    xxx
     
  8. fitzy21

    fitzy21 Worst RT Mod EVAH!!!!

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    right now, i regret nothing
    i see no point in regretting anything
     
  9. MaryJBlaze

    MaryJBlaze eleven

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    i know what you mean...

    its like the person takes some sort of joy in your discomfort and hangs it over your head for their own amusement....

    punch them in the throat and get on with your life, you'll feel better:D
     
  10. Zoomie

    Zoomie My mom is dead, ok?

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    Sitting there like an idiot while you opened up to me.
     
  11. Jimmy P

    Jimmy P bastion of awesomeness

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    I like to say I don't believe in regrets, and while that is true, I can see that my life would probably have been better had I not spent so much of it getting stoned and playing video games.
     
  12. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

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    But I LOVE you. :(:eek:
     
  13. Dragonfly

    Dragonfly Senior Member

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    I don't know about the whole regret thing, however I will say, I wouldn't wanna do this all over again.

    The only exception to that, is, if I knew what I know now
     
  14. the grobe

    the grobe Senior Member

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    i regret not opening myself up to some people, sometimes its good to open yourself up to people, i know ive been in situations that i know people couldve helped me but i kept my problems to myself and it ended badly
    i hope you dont lose your trust in people tho, not everybody is untrustworthy
     
  15. TheChaosFactor

    TheChaosFactor Senior Member

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    To me that would suck all the fun out of it. There'd be no challenge, and personally, I would probably commit suicide if I found myself a baby with full knowledge of how my life played out.
     
  16. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    No. But close.
     
  17. bluesafire

    bluesafire Senior Member

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    I lol'd
     
  18. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    i only regret opening up to people when they give me a reason to realize i never should have. uputil then it's peachy.
     
  19. Bonkai

    Bonkai Later guys

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    Do you mean someone on the forum or in RL?

    I understand you're feeling tho, when you open up you are vulnerable. Everyone has a little fear of that judgmental side of people especially when everything you have is on the table.
     
  20. bluesafire

    bluesafire Senior Member

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    sometimes it sucks being vulnerable when the other person isn't also being like that, but ultimately I'm glad that I can be emotionally available and open, cause it's a sign of strength no matter what someone else may think of it.
     
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