Losing sexual interest PLEASE HELP

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by pr0ne420, Mar 25, 2009.

  1. pr0ne420

    pr0ne420 Senior Member

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    Well I have been dating this girl for a year, and I love her so very much. Shes the best thing that has ever happened to me, but I have a problem. Lately, when we have sex, Im not really turned on by her the way I used to be. And its a problem for me, I have no reason not be. Shes GORGEOUS. Probably the nicest body I have ever seen in my life. I dont know whats wrong, does anyone have any insight?
     
  2. lynnsy101

    lynnsy101 Member

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    hmm have you tried role playing? buying her some nice lingerie to model for you? sometimes you just need to spice it up to get in the mood. married couples go thru this kind of thing allllll the time. best of luck to you two!
     
  3. pr0ne420

    pr0ne420 Senior Member

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    Thank you than helps. We did a little rape thing the other day and that was great. The true problem is we have sex every day so were abusing it. We have decided to take it easy and do it a few times a week.
     
  4. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    You can get into a rut when it's so common, when you can get sex as often as you like what makes it special?
     
  5. Sweet Pete

    Sweet Pete Member

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    Exactly. During my relationship I've noticed that sex feels a lot better when we take a few days (at least) in between. We've done it everyday too and it's good but not great. Absence really makes the heart (and I guess loins) grow fonder.
     

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