getting my guy into anal sex

I have included anal sex as a big part of my sex life for a long time, but my current boyfriend is not so into it. He is OK with using toys on me, but doesn't like full intercourse. He sees it as a dominance thing, even though I assure him it is not. He also has an issue with the whole fact that it's supposed to be an "exit" and not an entrance. I don't want to give it up, but I also don't want him to be uncomfortable. Any tips on how to introduce it to him in a non-threatening, easy-going way?

 

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I'm not a huge fan of giving anal. It's a bit stinky and painful at times. The only way I can say to introduce it to him is ask. Just grabbing it and sticking in there might not end with best results.

You could maybe get him drunk or high?

 

Wait. I got it.

Date rape drugs.

My affect the erection though.

A combination of Date rape and Viagra = you're golden in the poop shoot.

 

^hahahahahaha
tell him there is a gold nugget in their and to dig for it with his cock
it should work

 

Tell you what, provided you are over 18 I'll trade my girlfriend to him and he can trade you to me. (my gf doesn't like anal)

 

^agreed

What guy doesn't want anal from their girl? You are a rare gift.

 

i want me girl friend to play in my anus , also to wear cock and insert it inside my hole, also love fucking girls in thier ass , as it's very excited area, it's the real fucking

 

A lot of bitching and moaning goes on around here, "my girlfriend won't do this," "my boyfriend won't do that..."

Maybe you should be grateful you have someone that loves you or at least cares for you, and will do 90% of what you like that gets you off.

There are a couple of things my wife doesn't like to do. So be it. No matter what I say or do, she's not going like them. Sometimes she'll do them just to please me, and that's fine, but I really don't want to do them if she doesn't enjoy it.

 

I first must say, glad to see a woman trying to get a man to have anal, usually it's the other way around.

Honestly, I can't believe he doesn't want to put it in your butt. It seems he's more worried about the idea of dominance than it being dirty.

Well, make sure you clean you ass good, if you have an accident with his first anal experience, it might be your last with him.

I would also suggest you ride him, as to remove any ideas in his mind that he's dominating you.

Assure hims of many other parts of the body were not designed for sex. For instance the mouth, we use it for kissing and other oral pleasure, the mouth is designed for eating and drinking, but just about everybody enjoys oral sex.

I would suggest to him to just try it once, and if he's not begging for it again, then I'll be surprised.

 

Thanks for the tips everyone!

 

He's broken.

 

HAHAHA! It figures. A girl who loves anal and she has a guy who isn't into it. Life stinks sometimes.

 

If its an exit then why does it have sexual nerve endings?

 

My point EXACTLY.

So many people view anal sex as being unnatural, just because the hole doesn't lube naturally, that is what spit is for

In nature weak and handicapped animals are often abandoned by the parents or group, how many of us here would abandon our child due to having poor vision or some other type of handicap? Almost none of us, we would all agree, that it's cruel and barbaric, but remember, it's natural.

According to nature, sex is meant to do one thing, create progeny. If every time you have sex you are not trying to create a baby, then what you are doing is unnatural. Sex feeling good is a by-product of sex, the main goal is children.

Raise your hands if every time you have sex you want to get knocked up!? Almost nobody, because we would all have tons of kids by now.

Sex is for pleasure for most people, and what ever brings you pleasure, as long as you are not damaging your body, is acceptable.

Many people enjoy oral sex, and the mouth was not meant for eating pussy or sucking dick, rather it was meant for eating food, consuming liquids, and some times self defense.

It wasn't too long ago, that oral sex was just as taboo as anal, now just about everybody does oral.

According to most doctrines on religion any non-genital to genital contact is considered sodomy, this includes: oral, anal, fingering, hand job and masturbation. This is what most religions consider, unnatural sex. Just about every couple in the world is guilty for at least one thing on that list, unless your sex life is as boring as long division.

I believe in the future anal sex will become more prevalent as the rigid paradigm that we are living in crumbles away. Personally I love anal, and so does my gf. As long as your partner is into it, and you are not damaging yourself or your partner, then it's all green lights for me.

 

Personally I feel like anal is halfway gay. I tried it onced and then I thought about it.... Why stick my girl in the booty when the other area feels so great to both of us. I can understand if vaginal sex isn't good enough for you then go right ahead for anal. But, if the vaginal sex is great why mess with the booty? That's just my opinion. I'll never be into poking the booty, I'm vaginal all the way. But, at lease I can say I tried.

 

I personally don't agree that anal is gay, since not all gays do anal. If it's between a male and a female it's not gay IMO. Gay guys suck each others dicks, I don't think it's gay when my gf sucks my dick, just because gays do it. I like anal for the same reason I like oral,, it feels good and it adds variety.

But I do agree, vaginal is great. I love vaginal, but sometimes to spice things up, I love anal.

Sex is like food, some times a plain cheese pizza hits the spot, other times you want "the works" with a side of bread sticks, it's all about how you and your partner feel in the heat of the moment.

I don't do anal every time I have sex, but it's fun to have another option, it's like having 2 women in one.

If you feel it's gay, then by all means, don't do it, but to each their own. We all have our different comfort zones. I love doing my girl in the ass, but I don't want her to lick, finger, or penetrate my ass in any way, and she's not into it either.

The secret to a good sex life is to find someone as open minded as you are.

 

I agree to each their own.

 

I know a man who is willing to try anal intercourse, but the penis has a different opinion and just won't stay hard enough in that situation.

Is it possible that your boyfriend is shy about sharing that with you?

When he goes down on you, does he lick the "bridge" between the vagina and the anus? Starting at the vagina and exploring that bridge, over time, will show him that it's not as dirty as he fears.

Until then, toys are fun.

 

You are in a rare situation. Most guys would be more than happy to bend you over and destroy that ass, most guys would be asking you for it instead.

If push comes to shove and he's not into it, you either need to respect that and be happy with the toys, or find a guy that will tear your ass up, and trust me, there are plenty of guys that would love to get in your ass I'm sure.

I don't know what you look like, but most guys love that tight ass, I know I love it. I was a bit apprehensive too, I thought it would smell, and I could get shit all over my dick. After my first anal experience, by a woman who wanted it, just like you, I was a convert, I am addicted to anal. Once your bf realizes how much it makes you get off, how tight it is, and that it's clean and doesn't smell, you will have to beat him off your ass with a stick.

My gf loves rough anal, so we can't do it everyday because her butt hole is a little soar after a good thrashing, or else I would get in that ass everyday. My gf loves anal, just like you, if I stopped fucking her ass, it would be a MAJOR problem for her.

 

You said he'll use toys on you - maybe you should give a real show and demonstrate how clean they are. Maybe even give yourself an enema and demonstrate some toy A2M. Use some flavored lube like they have for oral sex so he smells fruit while he's poking your chute Try watching some anal porn with him - like a gal reverse cow-girling a new phat cock - there's plenty on fantasti.cc that you can watch for free. Maybe after a while he'll get into it. My gal is really prudish and tells me its icky but we still get to do it once in a while - I just have to remind her about all the sex during her period that she never complains about. A little bit of funk (maybe - its almost always clean as a whistle for us even without an enema) or a ton of blood and goop? It makes no difference really...