Some issues with being a Bi guy

sorry if this is the wrong forum but theres like three million of the things
Don't worry this isn't cry for help thread I've just been thinking about some issues and would like to hear other peoples oppinions.

I'm in my mid twenties and as you can tell by the title I'm bisexual, I've slept with girls and guys and enjoy all combinations. The thing is I only ever get crushes on girls (generally girls who for whatever reason are unatainable but thats another story), I enjoy sleeping with men and I prefer to be passive, but once the sex is over I kind of wish they'd leave. If I'm with a girl I like nothing better than spooning with them. And with guys it's deffinately their body that I'm attracted to, if a guy in a gym has a toned body I'll get a little horny but thats it. With girls it's more about their personality, I'm still attracted to their looks but if they make me laugh and I like their out look on life it's more important. In short whilst I enjoy sleeping with guys, I could never see myself in a proper relationship with one.

I'm wondering how other bi guys (or girls) feel about these things?

Oh and whilst I'm openning up discusions: to any straight girls reading. How would knowing a guy was Bisexual affect the chances of you having a relationship with him? I ask because I was with a girl for a while and one day mentioned that I thought Ryan from the OC was hot, she got really freaked and eventually we split up when she found out I'd been with guys before. A female friend of mine also told me she'd never go out with a guy who'd slept with a man. It's given me a bit of a complex about telling girls that I'm Bi.

 

I am (to the best of my knowledge, experience and practice) straight. I do think however, that sex is sex. If a person can overcome society's various hangups, biases, and downright discriminatory teachings - it seems to me that same gender sex would be just as rewarding as opposite. After all, I know all the male buttons to push because I am one, enjoying some in masturbation. And, thanx to a few stunning ladies, I have learned most of the other gender buttons to push (more like taste!) So I really think "bi" is merely an unfair description of an omnisexual, one who can have and enjoy sex with anyone. Given that emotional factors present are acceptable also. Think I should try to prove my point? Good disscusing this with you, Levett.

 

I've dated a few guys who were at least bicurious. I mean, I'm sexual, I'm not straight, or homosexual, and I'd rather not call it bisexual, because it's a little more complicated than that. But I don't really have a problem with dating a bisexual guy because if I trust them enough to date them, then I trust that they're not going to cheat on me with anyone, male or female. And if your sexual history affects someone's opinion of you, then that's just their loss because what's in the past is in the past. If you can tell them you're clean and free of STD's, then there should be no issue. If there is, she's not worth your time.