Some men are more stimulated by oral sex than others. For me oral stimulation yields the most acute and intense pleasure. The sensations produced by a mouth caressing my beloved organ seem more ardent and enervating than those produced by the vagina. It allows greater variety and subtler nuances of pleasure than vaginal or anal activity, which are more or less restricted in their execution and effect.
I can see how oral could and is very pleasurable, it's quite a different sensation than vaginal. Me myself I am a huge fan of anal, not because it's tighter, but because I love women's asses, I think they are just beautiful, and the idea that I can put my cock in such a private and sexy place just drives me wild.
I like oral way better than vaginal sex. No question, it feels better with any girl, and it's a way hotter idea. I guess I'm orally fixated I think sex is just ok, it strikes me as pretty bland, ordinary, normal, just not that great. It's fun, but it's fun like eating Kraft Macaroni and Cheese is fun. Enjoyable but nothing special.
Vaginal - oral, she loves them both. I usually like oral, but if she's on her stomach over pillows - that's my favorite!!
The vagina doesn't have any moving parts like a tongue, which if worked correctly, makes for a much better building and eventual orgasm. Only thing I can think of that would be somewhat close is when the vagina has an orgasm and it does those random split second tight squeezes. But to get the long stimulation in just the right spot on the wang, you have to go with oral. Especially if she swallows. That way you get the full effect!
When you know how to have anal with a woman and maker her have an anal orgasm, the anus spasms involuntarily in rapid strong contractions. It may not have any moving parts like a tongue, but the muscles messaging your cock during orgasm is mind blowing. I love making my girl have anal orgasms they feel so good.
I don't consider myself gay or bi just because I have visions of sucking cock at times. I could not actually live a life attached to another man like homosexual couples become. I could never actually do it, especially now because I am married. I would never cheat on my wife with ANYONE male or female. Sucking myself is not cheating though. THIS SUCKING TECHNIQUE WORKS BEST FOR ME 1- Begin with the slowest possible strokes, just fondling the cock, Go down the shaft with your lips curled over your teeth. This will keep your teeth from scraping the head of the cock you’re sucking. When you go up again you teeth are no problem. 2) - Gentle movements of the lips and tongue around the head of the penis. Going gradual and easy, sucking half the dick, use patience, going ever-so-slightly deeper with each stroke. Don’t yet go to the back of your throat. Fellatio is not just about taking the penis into your mouth, explore the rest of it with your lips and tongue. This will help add variation. 3) Fasten your pace, but not too fast, still be relaxed. Once you feel the cock fill with cum, stop! Remove your mouth, close your eyes, and think about the most boring and unattractive thing you can think of. (I think of a trash can, socks, a dead flower) The feeling of orgasm will slowly die out. Begin the process again after the feeling is moderate, don’t wait too long though. 4) - Now its time to get ready for the most intense part of the orgasm. Take the penis deep into your mouth, pulling upon it and sucking as vigorously as though you were stripping clean a mango-stone. Go deeper and when you feel the cock fill with cum, and orgasm coming, stroke as fast as you can with your mouth, and moan out. 5)-When you sense that the orgasm is imminent, and at the first spasms, pull back with just the head in your mouth. Start swallowing down. Just allow everything to slide down your throat. Not without tasting, use your tongue, to get the sweet taste. Most of the time it’s swee,t along with that salty touch to it and sometimes it has this slight chlorine taste too. Well, I hope this description helps you to attain more suck-cess. Remember great fellatio is all about technique and rhythm. Try variations in style and rhythm, by changing depth and speed and pressure, and always swallow, that’s the final reward.
Of course, I meant with women. Too many men want oral on themselves - not bothering to reciprocate. Actually the man should do the deed on the woman first, then enjoy her response. Sorry for the confusion.
I've found it's best to go very soft and easy until she wants it harder. Usually I maintain a soft tongue touch running slowly up and down the entire length of her vaginal lips - not even toucing her clit until she either spreads her legs or uses her hands to pull my head further in. Once she gets fully aroused she usually either does one or the other. Most people go right for the clit too hard - not terrible, but I don't think as good as it could be for her. We've found that in starting off gentle, I can easily keep her orgasmic much longer. With Julia I watch for the involuntary pulsing of her stomach and the hardening and extending of her nipples - a definite sign she having a good orgasm. If I'm lucky I can sometimes maintain her orgasm for 15 or 20 minutes, while her nipples point to the ceiling and her stomach is quivering out of control - sometimes a quiet moan but usually completely quiet. i can also tell you after that - oral also yeilds the best intercourse!!
