First of all, every girl is different, we all like different degrees of pressure and different speeds. So pay attention to how your girlfriends moves her body. If she’s pulling her hips away from your face then you need to use less pressure. Guys don’t seem to realize just how sensitive some girls can be. I know that personally, I can’t orgasm if a guy uses a lot of pressure, try this: Start out licking very gently and very slowly, even if you think you're being TOO gentle, you're not (and if you are, she’ll push her hips up toward your face) just think of it as teasing her, at the beginning, even if she lifts her hips up try pulling back, girls enjoy being teased a lot more than guys do because we know our orgasm will be so much better when we finally get there. Very very very gradually start using more pressure, licking a little bit harder and a little bit faster, but keep paying attention to how she’s moving. Try bringing her close then pulling back a bit and licking gently again, try even moving away from her clit and kissing her stomach and lightly biting her or running your tongue slowly up and down her thighs. Try teasing her by keeping your mouth about half an inch above her clit without doing anything, she’ll be able to feel your breath and she won’t be able to wait for you to do more. Another tip, when you're using your finger(s) (two is usually better than one) you have to trigger her g-spot, to do this just put your first two fingers into her and move them as if you were gesturing someone to “come here”, the pads of your fingers should be pressing against her g-spot, try combining this with licking her clit (gently at first then slowly gaining pressure) and she will have a very powerful orgasm. One other thing, sometimes it can take a very long time to get a girl to orgasm, it might not happen in 5 or 15 or even 45 minutes. Just be patient and stay focused. You could be there a while. As long as she’s enjoying it, it isn’t futile Just remember: PAY ATTENTION to how she’s moving her hips! If she’s pulling them back towards the bed then be gentler or slower or both. If she’s lifting them up then try licking a little harder or faster or maybe even both, but don’t get carried away, keep paying attention and she’ll guide you Good luck!
The key to giving a girl good dome is consistency. Stop and go shit just makes me want to beat you (and not in a sexy way either.) Try circular tongue action on/around the clit, but at the same speed. Don't speed up too much and don't slow down too much.
