ok, heres the situation. im a 20 yr old guy and im pretty desperate for sex. i met this girl through an odd circumstance a few months ago and have been talking to her online since. i only actually saw her in person once, and she seemed alright. whenever she instant messages me i get kind of annoyed, since i dont like talking to her. but she just now started IMing me about underwear shopping, and from there it just went kinky. i was pretty shocked in the AIM conversaion and didnt know exactly how to respond to her. apparently shes been planning this for some time. i dont think she wants a relationship, though im not positive. Bottom line-Im a horny bastard who not getting any, but I DONT WANT TO BE A SLUT. i want to go ahead with this, cus i basically view any experience as good experience. but my intuition tells STOP DONT GO ANY FURTHER! i hate being a horny guy. what do you guys make of this situation? heres a bit of the diologue you got sick of hearing about my underwear shopping, didn't you? haha meh you'd like it better if you could see the end result i might be able to arrange that oh really? yes really but if you don't want to...that'd be okay of course i want to we'll have to see then 11:30 PM won't we your messing with my head! heh no i'm not when i met you i got the impression you wouldn't mind if i asked that question well, im up for it. be it a good thing or a bad thing, only time will tell. how would it be a bad thing probably wouldnt be. but i just usually dont do things like that. 11:35 PM but i am very up for it was i right though were you right if i wouldnt mind you asking that? yes i guess though i think most guys would say yes actually no you think? yeah hard to say i've been turned down plenty turned down for sex or for a relationship? 11:40 PM both
say yes... tease or no tease theres no harm in saying yes...you don't trust her so if she turns out to be full of shit, hten you can know you were right all along. its only manipulative if she convinces you fully.
Here's some advice one of my friends usually gives to guys in this situation: "Dick her and leave her, dude."
On the scene with a magazine You'll be jacking off is what I mean Cause after reading your post this is what I've seen The girl is not too keen For you she doesn't give a bean She seems to play games like a teen and if you did hook up you'd be wiped out clean Like a whiskey bottle that belonged to Dean (Martin) Relationships can be fun, but they usually end mean So I'll give you some advice worthy of a college dean sometimes it's best to just wip it out and give it a nice sheen.
