What makes is a great kiss / kisser ?

For educational proposes

All questions relate to passionate-making-out-kissing / not the kiss on the cheek and “I’ll see you later honey” kind. I mean the kind that gets you all hot and steamy.



Do you use tongue ?

How do you use tongue, how is it used on you ?

What does he or she do to you that is so amazing ?

What do you do to them that gets them all work-up ?

What are you doing with your body whist kissing them?

What are they doing with their body whist kissing you?

Is it a factor if are you are lying down, standing, sitting…. ? and which do you prefer ?

What shouldn’t you do when kissing someone ?

What is the best kiss you have ever had (short or long version, your choice – I’d like details though lol)

* Any final notes / advice ?




One advice I got from a guy friend a few years back was that – Girls… do not ever wear lip gloss that is sticky like honey. It gets all over the place and makes it unpleasant. The ones that wipe off are fine though.

 

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Oh yah, if it's make-out kissing, you gotta use tongue and hands. I love it when a man touches my face during a kiss. But don't be in too big a hurry to get his hands inside my clothes. I like a nice slow buildup.

I love a long slow make-out session with lots of kissing and touching. It's the best way to get me into bed, for sure.

 

Do you use tongue?

Of course

How do you use tongue, how is it used on you?

Entwining with my partners tongue, exploring their mouth.

What does he or she do to you that is so amazing?

Brenda had large soft lips that felt so good to my face, Raul is slow, receptive to my tongue and lips and you can tell he is really enjoying the contact.

What do you do to them that gets them all work-up?

I usually only kiss as part of lovemaking, so the work up is in progress

What are you doing with your body whist kissing them?

Pressing skin on skin usually. I like to touch them with my hands, either caressing their body or running my fingers thru their hair holding the back of their head.

Is it a factor if are you are lying down, standing, sitting…. ? and which do you prefer ?

I prefer lying down in bed but kissing can be a prelude to that.

What shouldn’t you do when kissing someone?

Chew gum.

OK, I don't like a lot of vocalizations, just the quiet sensual feel of our spitty parts meshing.

What is the best kiss you have ever had (short or long version, your choice – I’d like details though lol)

When Brenda and I would kiss it was usually a very passionate oral experience (often with the taste/odor of other body parts on our mouths) Raul has that same feel and I think it is knowing that your partner is really into the moment and the feel of it that intensifies it. When I was young and very passionate with Halet, my Turkish girlfriend, I remember the odor/taste of garlic in deep kissing her. Garlic at the time was not common in my midwestern U.S. diet so it was as exotic as the girl I was involved with. I think I developed a taste for garlic from Halet. Passion can override all other considerations such as "bad breath."

 

Shale “Passion can override all other considerations such as "bad breath." - yes, and vice versa lol

“…I think it is knowing that your partner is really into the moment and the feel of it that intensifies it.” – I agree.

And there is something about running your fingers through their hair – on the sides or at the back of their head… ‘hot’ is all I can say

 

Do you use tongue ?

-God yes. It feels so much more intimate that way

How do you use tongue, how is it used on you ?

He likes for me to suck on his tongue. Light sucking can be okay but generally massaging his with mine. There really is no set way to do it just whatever feels right

What does he or she do to you that is so amazing ?

-I like it when he nips on my lip lightly

What do you do to them that gets them all work-up ?

-Run my hands over his body while I'm kissing him and again sucking on his tongue.

What are you doing with your body whist kissing them?

-I hold it closely. I really like skin to skin touching when kissing. I hold his face in my hands and run my fingers through his hair.

What are they doing with their body whist kissing you?

-He usually is holding me around the waist. No touching the face cause I don't like hands in my face.

Is it a factor if are you are lying down, standing, sitting…. ? and which do you prefer ?

-lying down i prefer cause it's a prelude to sex.

What shouldn’t you do when kissing someone ?

-shove your tongue down their throat or bite their tongue.

What is the best kiss you have ever had (short or long version, your choice – I’d like details though lol)

-my first kiss. I had a crush on him for years and we just happened to be at the same place. He took me outside and said "I'd really like to kiss you" Then just planted one on me. So many butterflies in my stomach. I pulled away cause it was unexpected but then realized that I didn't want to stop so I pulled him back in for another one.

* Any final notes / advice ?

Swallow. Globs of spit in your mouth is not good and just gross. Also don't slobber as it is also gross. And it's alright to kiss without tongue, it can be just as sensual and sometimes even more so.

 

And that relates to this thread, how?

 

I'm a straight male. I don't know what you are but i feel like that may make a difference so im saying that.

Do you use tongue ?
abso-fucking-lutely

How do you use tongue, how is it used on you ?
well since i taught this girl literally everything she knows about making out she does pretty much what i do. she never kissed a guy before me. now i get sex out of her. but anyways that's off topic. wut i do to her with the tongue is i often will lock tognues with her and she does the same thing. also if i take my tongue out ill suck hers into my mouth and it seems to drive her wild. she hasn't quite figured this out yet.

What does he or she do to you that is so amazing ?
she pretty much follows my lead so im in control of the making out pretty much. this is kind of a turn on cuz i like to be in control of this.

What do you do to them that gets them all work-up ?
like i said before the suck her tongue into my mouth. Also occasionally i take a break from her mouth and suck on and kiss and lick other body parts (before i go in for her pussy)

What are you doing with your body whist kissing them?
honestly not that much. sometimes if were laying down ill pull her up and put her in a different position. but i guess i touch her all over with my hands and my hands eventually make their way into her clothes and eventually into her vajina
What are they doing with their body whist kissing you?
sometimes she sorta give me a lap dance and really wiggles all over my dick she knows i like this
Is it a factor if are you are lying down, standing, sitting…. ? and which do you prefer ?
i don't prefer any particular position i just change position a lot. But we always seem to go from standing up to laying down. hmmm sounds like the right way to go for sex we never go from lying down to standing up that would just be strange.
What shouldn’t you do when kissing someone ?
never burp. omg i did that once and i was really embarrassed but i couldn't help it. Ive since figured out how to control that urge if it arises. same thing if u have gas on the other end of ur body. just figure out a way to hold it in.
What is the best kiss you have ever had (short or long version, your choice – I’d like details though lol)
o jeez ever since she got good at making out they have all been really good When i first started making out with her she was terrible but now shes really good at it. i would say the best time was when we were making out in the movie theater and she "accidentally" brushed up against my dick with her hand. it wasnt accidental it was definately intentional. somehow it changed the way she makes out with me when she did that and i taught her a whole bunch of tricks while making out during this session. best thing about her is that she used to be such a church girl and now shes kinda slutty. hmmm yaa
* Any final notes / advice ?

 

I’m a straight female…. I like it when guys are in control too – it is a turn on

lol
Just for my own personal understanding - what makes a girl slutty in your eyes ? Like as in define, slutty and not-slutty….

 

I think that creativity is important in kissing. I try not to repeat the same patterns over and over. Women's moods are constantly changing, so the moves that get me a super-passionate response today may not work tomorrow.

 

Well i guess the fact that if i want to do something shell do it. Whatever it is. If i want to do atm shell do iy

 

Do you use tongue ? Hardly. I prefer a lot of lip nibbling and sucking and open-mouth kissing without slobbering. I like a very little bit of tongue.

How do you use tongue, how is it used on you ? I'll slip it in sometimes and I like it slowly and inside the mouth. I HATE sloppy kisses that leave your face wet and tonsil hockey.

What does he or she do to you that is so amazing ? I loveee nibbling

What do you do to them that gets them all work-up ? Neck kissing, sucking the bottom lip lightly

What are you doing with your body whist kissing them? Either putting my hand on the back of his neck and running it through his hair or gently caressing his whole body.

What are they doing with their body whist kissing you? The same thing, but more body and less face/hair.

Is it a factor if are you are lying down, standing, sitting…. ? and which do you prefer ? I love it all. I love being on a guy's lap so my face is slightly above his.

What shouldn’t you do when kissing someone ? SLOBBERING

What is the best kiss you have ever had (short or long version, your choice – I’d like details though lol) I've had a lot of good ones. Every kiss with my first boyfriend was incredible. Mmm. But we were in love.

 

I definately agree with no slobbering. Thats gross dont be a fucking dog

 

I agree. Creativity is always good :cheers2:

 

I like your style. I underlined the stuff I agree with - which is pretty much everything lol

i really like the area below and behind his ear... making my way back to the neck area then back up again... whist taking in deep breaths of his masculine scent...... sigh*

 

Lol u sound like ur getting a little horney thinking about that.

 

Well - its a real turn on lol

 

Thats too bad that you live in australia cuz i would be more than willing to satisfy your needs.

 

Found this article on the pinnacle of all truth:

http://www.cosmogirl.com/guys/guide-to-guys/great-kiss-gtg-feb07

It's a HOT TO guide from girls to guys

Entertaining at the very least


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Its funny but mostly right. I dated this girl michelle and when we went to make out for the first time she opened her mouth like she was at the dentist. For a sec i thought i was jumping into a whales mouth and thought i was at sea or something. It was weird but she was the only girl ive ever dated like that. Hey you win some you lose some though. That one was a loss.