Help..cant last while having sex:(

Ok so im a 22 yr old guy..1st time was with the girl Im with when I was 18..

Im the type of guy that would never talk about sex and all.. but now im worried about when im in bed..i cant last AT ALL..and i dont know what to do..i mean literally i cum after 3-4 seconds..i dont know what happens..i either get too excited and all when we are at it..my heart starts to pound faster..and after few seconds..i cum..

i know i could do it again after i cum the 1st time..but this is too pathatic i find and im really ashamed.. not that my girl has ever complained but i really do want to pleasure her but..well im just speechless..all i could say is that i can only last for 3-4seconds,thats it.

any tips or help, i would really appreciate......

 

I bet she complains to her friends just not to your face.

 

If this is seriously your issue you can try masturbation before you know you might do something with your GF. If this continues to be an issue you will want to make an appointment with a urologist to discuss your options.

 

It's simple, take viagra. I'm pretty sure that fixes premature ejcaulation as well.

 

serious problem in your life?
try analytical hypnotherapy - i am not joking!

go see a hypnotherapist who does analysis using free association - talking thro your problem....

you can sort it in less than 8 sessions - typical max for analytical hypnotherapy clients..

that's the best advice anybody can give....
check out hypnoanalysis.com - the site is UK therapists , but you can understand the therapy thro this site - then find somebody in the states who does it thro an american association.

besta luck,
george.

 

Everyday in the free paper there's an advert for something to solve premature ejaculation- it's the Metro, available in most UK cities and presumably on-line.

Thankfully I can last so I can't speak from personal experience if it works.

 

cum about 5 mins before sex.

u shud be able to last longer.

either that or viagra.

or maybe go talk to your doctor.

 

Can try switching up different positions:

http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_60/66_love_tip.html

That article raises an interesting point - some positions are more conducive to cuming sooner and switching up more spices up things in the bedroom and keep you going longer.


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Double-bag it (2 condoms).

 

think of rosie o donell not only will u hold out longer--but want to put it back in your pants as well

 

4 minutes might be reasonably normal.

4 seconds, thats in the 'go see a doctor' category

 

No sweat. Just keep going and come again. Second and third times take longer. Hint: let her get on top. Oh yeah, change the condom I spose.