Masturbation isn't a single player Event.

There's nothing wrong with being a loner, but sometimes you just want some friends or people to have fun with. Be it friends, lovers, spouses, or a group of all these together, there is nothing wrong with group play. How many people have experience with this, and how. give as little or as much info as you want.

 

no i havent, but i always envy those people who have mutual with neighbours or friends.

why does stuff like that never happen to me

 

When I was a kid we would have regular groups sessions - I guess that's a fairly typical rite of passage for most boys going through puberty / adolescence though.

However, in my adult life I have only experienced 1 on 1, although I have often fantasised about a return to those group sesions in my early teens - it's just that the opportunity has never presented itself, although given the chance I would take it like a shot.

 

My wife and I masturbate together a lot. One of our favorite things -- we lie in bed side by side, propped up against the headboard, with one of our legs wrapped around the other's. I jerk off and she plays with her pussy. She's a chronic masturbator and so am I, so it's all good.

 

When I first got with my wife, Masturbation not something brought up at all. And one day, I got home from work, and she called me in to the bed room. Seeing her laying there, playing with her pussy, wearing a short skirt, I was really turned on. I slowly got undressed, laid on the bed next to her, and started jerking off for her. We talked about different fantasies we had, and how sexy we looked masturbating. It's become a semi-normal occurrence for mutual masturbation.

But my the most memorable one besides that was I came home and she was in the kitchen. I walked up behind her, and slid on hands down her pants, and the other up her shirt. i just there playing with pussy while she was leaning on the counter. I stopped just long enough to turn her around, and sat her on the counter, and she took over. i stood there, masturbating, for her, the smell of her pussy and sweat intoxicating. We both came so hard we took a nap right there, me laying on her chest, her back against the wall.

 

me and the wife do it fairly often now. Like Dark Rev we didnt talk about it much early on, and it wasnt until I saw how into it she was when I was just applying some lube one time.... I kept stroking it and she was getting all hot. She said she really liked watching me do it. From there we started talking alot more about sex in general, it was pretty much the initial catalyst for open communication for us.

These days we will get really close and masturbate together, making all kinds of noises and talking dirty, until I eventually come all over her, which makes her have a crazy orgasm. This is how alot of our better epic sexual encounters start in fact.

 

Did it with a girlfriend once where we were sat a few feet apart so not touching each other, and still remember the sight of her flicking the bean. I still think of it generally as a solo event.

 

Before we were married, my wife was giving me hand job one morning and she just said out of the blue, "Do I do it as well as you do it?" I said joking, something like, "No one can do it like I do," She said, "OK, show me." I said "You go too." And how that's how we got started.

I was like, "Marry me now!" Just kidding. The bottom line is we both love to masturbate. It's an important part of our sex lives. We do it together and alone.

 

Actually, I masturbated with a male buddy of mine recently. We are both straight males. I have never ever touched another guy in a sexual manner. We sat on the couch, released and it felt great. No sexual desires for one another at all. He has a healthy sex life/relationship with his girlfriend and I have no desire to be with a man whatsoever not even jerking off another man. I'm the type of dude that has no hangups and he is the same way.

For us, it was just part of the bonding process because we are like brothers in different ways. After we finished, we cleaned up and talked about his relationship with his girlfriend, the economy, past relationships and how the economy has effected our job situations along with spiritual beliefs/connections.

Don't get me wrong, masturbating is a strong and taboo activity today to some but it is something that I find necessary for me. When I go without doing it for a while, it can affect my mind & body and I lose sleep because I'm horny. I just discovered that recently. My buddy wanted to try releasing together so I was up for it.

I was holding out doing it until he came over on the day we planned. For the both of us it was not an earth shaking experience between us, there was no sexual chemistry/connection. It was just about being guys, being able to relate to one another and understand each other in a healthy and respectable way.

We enjoyed it because of the freedom and that is just about it plus it also helped me to eliminate ridiculous myths/rules that I had in the back of my mind. Masturbating is a private thing which I do in private and seldom do with others. My buddy is like the third person I have ever tried it with. I really don't see myself whacking with various people or crossjerking others at all. I would not dare cross that line nor do I care to.

 

My partner and I freely masturbate in bed, swimming or even bushwalking: it is a release as well as a stimulant. Neither of us are particularly inhibited when nude, but we are not all that up-front-and-public with masterbation: mutual MBing is a private thing to enjoy and should never be in public or with somebody you don't know well.

 

Gosh, I mustive read the wrong book! I thought masturbation was called that 'cause it was a loner thing to do. Damned if I'm ever gonna waste the presence of a gal by jackin' myself. I don't necessarily expect intercourse or even sex every time we get together. But if there is sex in the air, its a waste to do it myself when she is there. 'Specially while I'm gobbling up all that delicious hair, juice, feel, and smell of her 'heavenly gate.' But if you need company, don't count on me guys. And girls - I'll never bore you with only watching me. How many women expect to observe a male masturbation session when they go out with a guy? And you str8s that join other guys in the deed - maybe you should consider that you enjoy male company during sex. Nothing wrong with it and you might find a more exciting and fulfilling life.

 

Masturbation with a partner doesn't have to be a seperately individual thing - and rarely is, but a matter of mutual masturbation, either as a part of foreplay, or as an sexual act in itself - something which is either suitable for Gay sex, or for Straight sex when she may not be up to total penetration for some reason or another, such as time of month.

 

My spouse and I masturbate together all the time. It's good clean fun. More often than not we end up fucking, but sometimes we get off solo. It's just another facet of our sex lives.