How do dump your bf/gf

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by JuliettesCrying, Apr 2, 2009.

  1. JuliettesCrying

    JuliettesCrying Member

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    Any suggestions on how to dump someone who is a nice person, and you've tried to date but you're not romantically attracted to them and you would rather be just friends?? Do you think it's possible to keep someone as a friend, after you've hurt them by dumping them??
     
  2. Musikero

    Musikero Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Just do it already. Tell him you realized that you're not romantically attracted to him and would rather be just friends. Don't expect to keep him as a friend - it CAN happen, but it might not so don't expect it.
     
  3. moondaddy

    moondaddy Member

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    Just say, "It's not you, it's me."
     
  4. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    leave this up on your computer in front of them and hit the can for a smoke[accidental like]...
     
  5. Sweet Pete

    Sweet Pete Member

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    I would just be honest and up front about it. Tell her you think she's an awesome person but that you're not romantically compatible.
     
  6. Musikero

    Musikero Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    ^The OP is a she talking about a he. But I agree with what you say.:)
     
  7. nldn

    nldn Senior Member

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    don't do it by text
     
  8. skeptikal

    skeptikal Guest

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    lmao great advice!
     
  9. audiovisions

    audiovisions Member

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    I usually dump people via a singing telegram
     
  10. JuliettesCrying

    JuliettesCrying Member

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    lmao singing telegram!
     
  11. Kinky Ramona

    Kinky Ramona Back by popular demand!

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    Honesty is always the best policy when it comes to relationships. Quick like a bandaid.
     
  12. Carlfloydfan

    Carlfloydfan Travel lover

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    What kind of question is this?

    It is simple, just tell him.
     
  13. kinulpture

    kinulpture Member

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    having been dumped a couple of times recently, i personally don`t like to remain friends.
     
  14. djstrauss

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    Honesty, just say look, im dumping you.
    its fast and easy and hurts no feelings. do not let the other person try to pull reasons out of you. The reasons do not matter. You have to be firm in that belief. or if they are clingy and try to say "pwease take me bak dont dump me" then the only other option is to say ive been sleeping with your best friend.
    that works every time
     
  15. fuzz_acid_flowers

    fuzz_acid_flowers Aqueou§ Transmi§§ion

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    The longer you take, the harder it gets, trust me.Sometimes you have to pay attention to your own happiness as well.
     

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