i am an asian, and have been in Finland for a year. i like finns, they are hot. so i constently meet finns. when they saw my photo, they came out to meet and fucked. anyway, they only wanted once for all. so i thought i wasnt cute. but ppl say that finns are just cold. but they also say it could be cultural barrier. i believe it could be logical explanation. but i am fine with western culture. and i know a lot. then what;s wrong?? maybe asians are just extraneous ingredians which they could pick up once for a while or asians are originally not attractive to caucasions??? looking for answers from you
many caucasians are interested in asians for all manner of reasons, however your approach towards the opposite sex does seem to be rather lewd.
i tried to find a friend. even i added ppl from ordinary website, they soon asked to meet and fuck....... i am sorry and sad.........
I really doubt there are any definitive guidelines to attraction. Some dudes will dig you, some wont. Some people like Marmite, others don't, you know?
you can't generalize finnish people or caucasians in general because of the people you've came in contact with. i'm a gay white man in new jersey, usa and i LOVE asian men. they're sooo hot.
I'm caucasian, have had asian boyfriends before, and have some asian gay friends now, they are great. What I dont understand boyye, is if these guys are just arranging to meet up for one nighters and thats not what you want, why do you let them?, just say from the start youre after friendship or something more long term, I'm sure there are gay social / sports clubs in Finland. If you are getting on Gaydar or Craiglist or something like that, they probably arent even gay anyway, some married guy that wants his dick sucked
sorry, i didnt mention that i was gay....... haha, anyway, there are many reasons here. oh my, thanks. to be honest, a month ago, i went to cinema with my friend, i burst into tears after the movie. i guess i took too much, and felt a lot better afterwards, which finns may think unreasonable,haha. i gonna admit, i am common. so i dont have much to attract others. but i am average in all respects. so i am that bad,i guess. haha maybe i showed a nice pix, and then they figured out i am trash. mmm, could be true. so maybe i should go to bars to meet directly..... i now feel clearer. since im average, dont quite fanscinate gay activities(i dont like pink, gay dance or gay gatherings) and gays are always hooking up new ones, that's why i am dumped quickly. even if i truly want to enjoy a movie or a dinner with my bf, maybe i simply dont have that spell. well, anyway, i think i got it.
boyye, maybe you want to post a pic of yourself here. Its impossible for anyone to self access how "hot" they are. Sounds to me like its more about confidence issues than what you actually look like. For any guy or girl for that matter, if you want to up your hottest factor its really just a matter of getting in shape, or the opposite if you want to be the cuddly bear. Post a pic, we'll tell you, cover the eyes if you are worried about privacy, I'm willing to bet its more about whats going inside your head than how "hot" you think you are
now i think i have a clue.... gays love fun, so sex plays a great role in this world. seems everyone is on instable flow. so even if they have one true heart to give away, the chance is rare. most want sex. if i am geogrous enough, i can conquer many guys. i always want cute ones. but they can be too busy to meet me twice. i am no better person, i also refuse to meet guys again who are not so cute or laddish to me. even acitivities can bring ppl together, it's hard to bring them together when you dont have the chrisma to them. dont say ppl can have contents and be complicated. it could be true, but it wont reveal after several dates. maybe it's extreme to some extent, it makes sense, anyway. maybe all i need is to see as many as i could, then i can know my true value. i think i am a slut, but i also cherish true love.
I have one gay friend, he seeks love while pursuing sex with multiple people and see's these two as very seperate. For him, the lack of romance seems much to do with not respecting people the he sleeps with