Guys, how long do you have to wait before you can come a second time? The books say 20 minutes for younger guys, longer as you get older. :toetap05: Ladies, you can answer for your regular partner.
My refractory period starts at practically nothing, as in... I come, I maybe get a bit softer, then hard again while still inside her. Most of the time I can just keep going these days, which is not at all something I could do when I was younger. (I'm 33) I used to get too sensitive for awhile after each orgasm, which doesnt really happen anymore. It increases after that, to probably 5 minutes the second time, 10 or 15 the third, and so on. I gain shitloads of stamina for each one though, so if we go for 4, we'll be at it for like 45 minutes. Those are the nights when the wife lays there with twitchy legs for awhile afterwards.
Interesting question Kj69. The answer is "depends". It is true it takes longer as men age but that's not a bad thing. In fact I would have to say I'm a better lover now in my middle years than I was in my younger years. Cumming is not a race. It's a matter of quality. It's not something that should be a goal, but two well suited partners tend to cum at the same time. And really great sex partners cum together again and again. For this male, it really turns me on when my female cums before me. In fact it is great when she cums multipul times before me. When I cum she is just at the end of her wits! But to answer your question; it takes anywhere from 30 min to an hour to recover for round two. Oh, and by-the-way, for me it's not just about cumming. I like falling asleep with my bonner in her. That might sound boring but it's actually the best. Any questions?
I can get hard again in a few minutes, but it takes about an hour before I am ready to come a second time. Strangely, the recovery time for round three is often less.
I'd say roughly 20 minutes for the numbness to go away. However I suggest waiting an hour so as to have a decent cum buildup.
i'd have to say between 5 - 15 minutes. I usually don't stop until i'm exhausted, and my wife and I usually go for 4 hours.
