it sounds to me like he is just very confused as well.. if you think about it.. you sound like you don't wanna show your true colors because you don't want the world to know yet which is fine if you aren't ready. well i'm sure he feels the same way. think about how scared you are about your entire school knowing and be a little less cynical of his actions. i don't think he was trying to expose you i think he was trying to experiment without having to ask you on a date or something ESPECIALLY if he doesn't know you're gay. it would be a big risk to take if you're not comforatable yet but maybe you should just ask him or something and then take it from there because it may turn into something beautiful you never know until you try i would just go for it!! and don't worry about the people who hate and judge. they don't matter in this life because someday karma will come back around and bit them in the ass! don't let anyone judge you but yourself. maybe coming out would be good for you especially when it comes to meeting people... just an option. best of luck! :grouphug:
i have been in your position before- and its soo annoying! i know a guy quite well and when ever we drink together we always get really flirty towards one another (as far as everyone is concerned, we are both straight) but i often just give more eye contact than necessary- even if hes not talking to you- and when he catches your eye, look the other way... its safe, and not necessarily giving anything away, but also really fun! (i prefer flirting to actually acting upon them!) but see where it goes from there. just get him really drunk- no man is straight when he's intoxicated. deep down i believe that all men (from experience) have the possibility of being gay. they just dont know it yet. good luck and keep us posted!
well if you were borderline leaning on him i guarantee he noticed and he obviously didnt mind. i think that the ball is in your court. it sounds like hes willing to open up to you but he may be a little more shy about it than you are! just go for something.. maybe get yourself into a "heart-to-heart" with him via texting or aim or on the phone so its really casual and not in person and kinda let it out that way he wont have to feel intimidated about the whole confrontation ..just an idea idk if you would be comforatable with that
What did people do before cell phones and internet? Answer is notes. Teacher's worst enemy, but still a verry helpful communication tool.. And all you need is a pen(cil) and paper. Easy as that. Just slip it to him either in person or find his locker or even just slip it in his book bag. If he really is open to it, which from the way you describe it he is, he may actually enjoy this old fashioned style. Computers and cell phones just allow faster passing of notes, but who NEEDS them anyway? Paper and pen man paper and pen. And best of luck to you.
Sounds like you do in fact have an opportunity. I think there may be a good chance, since your almost advances seemed replicated. Personally I would just asking him if he has a phone or computer, I mean they doesn't mean you are hitting on him. If he gives you his telephone number (presuming he has a phone), this may give more of an indication of how interested he is. If he doesn't, no harm done, least you would have your answer. Sounds silly, but I actually still distinguish myself as gay in public. The Hanky Code is an old form of communication via coloured handkerchiefs! Even though no one has a clue to it, it may someday be recognised by someone outside of a gay bar! Just thought I would comment on the mention of code somewhere earlier in the thread. I would love to know if there is anything else like it around. We all have our trouble identifying each other
