i started dating my best guy friend a few months ago. i absolutely love him to death. before we started dating, we confided in eachother about things that we would never imagine telling anyone else. and one of the things that he told me was that he was bi-curious. so i told him i would set him up with one of my gay friends to give him the experience... he backed out. so then i took him to the sex shop and he bought a few anal toys. and lastly, he actually found someone who he wanted to experience with and was emailing him back and forth... the whole time this was going on, he had a gf. so. after him and the girl broke up, we started fucking... and eventually he was calling me his gf. well... 3 days ago i went to his house and got on his computer. i looked on the ground and his pants were on the floor... they had obviously been taken off so he could masterbate. i mean be for real. im human. i know whats up. so i proceeded to look at the history on his computer. ALL of it was gay porn. ALL of it. no pussy. no tits. nothing. only guys giving head and anal. i went into complete shock and confronted him about it. he swears up and down that hes not gay. its just something he was getting off to. he only likes it when he's horny. he could never actually do it... so he says. but my question is, if all this is true, why were there no girls? why only guys? so lastly. tonight i was looking around and found a post where he had actually written about an experience giving another guy head. in detail. he has told me that he would NEVER EVER do it. EVER. and it pisses him off really bad when i call him gay. but thats what it looks like to me. especially now. so. im a little worried. if he is gay, fine. i would accept him. if he's bi, cool. im bi too. its whatever. but i just want him to be honest. is he scared of losing me? is he scared of what people will think? or is he really just straight and just looking for a new experience? is it possible for him to actually be straight and be turned on by guys? please help. this is a very weird situation that i never pictured myself in. any help will be MUCH appreciated. thanks!
What a hipocrite you are... Listen to what you're saying about the man who confided in you, and you confided in him. He tells you that he's bi-curious, and you accept that. Then when you two are in a relationship and the first sign of your femeninity is in question, you blatently call him gay? ... I'm married to a woman that's obsessed with wanting to stick stuff up my butt, but for some reason I find that repulsive. But secretively, I've sucked on a cock or two in the recent past and I was okay with it because it satisfied my curiosity. Does that make me gay? Hell no... I love pussy like the next man, but there are times in a person's life where repitition calls for variety. For some that time happens early in life, while others it takes longer. Still, if you're not cool with his life decisions then you shouldn't be with him. Regardless of how much he feels about you or wants you, if you don't believe in what he's doing in his life, who are you to be a bible thumper and judge him when you knew the curiosity was there since the beginning? ...And by the way, if you had any trust in him, you wouldn't be snooping around on his computer. He'd probably be better off being single and bisexual. That way he can fool around with whoever he wants to and not have to deal with someone that doesn't have trust or insecurity issues. You won't see bisexual men doing that kind of crap. We get what we want with no strings attached and go on with our lives until the next craving.
