Okay so i met this girl 4 months ago off a online dating site, it is very hard cause i dont know what her past was like, ive jsut met her friends and family but i still dont seem to know her yet, i have a suspision of cheating, she was on facebook the other day and i asked her who that guy was and she blatently lied to me and said she met him at the gym, when she had met him on the same site we met, and she likes to hide alot of things from me like when she goes out she will never tell me any stories about guys. at all!! my last girlfriends would always be like these fucking gross guys at the bar kept trying to hit on me. and stuff like that. she went on a basketball trip with her school last weekend with the girls and guys team, and they got hammered on the bus ride home caue they won the championship, and she didnt have one story to tell me about it...i was like ahhh so what you guys just sat there and drank? like fuck party on ya know? but she jsut doesnt want to tell me anything about guys. im starting to wonder if its cause she is scared to or if there is actually something going on :S she has lied to me already... but insists she is the most loyal person in the world. since girls would pretty much know best what do you girls think?
Sounds like the workings of a Scorpio. If she is a Scorpio, then RUN!!!!!!!!!!! They have destroyed my faith in trusting people.
Read her texts... But dont make and ass out of yourself and Don't accuse unless you have solid proof of something. If your gut tells you there is sometihng goin on, then there probably is. I just busted a girl I was dating for a couple months when she was lying in bed with me, a guy sent her a text and her phone was on the bed right next to me. He was telling her how he wanted to get together again because the night before she sucked him off so well. Slut!! Bottom line is, if there is something going on the truth comes out eventually. They spin such a web of lies they pretty much call themselves out, because they can't ever keep the same story going. I knew something was up with mine because she said she went to a suns game one night, a couple nights later I asked her how the game was and it took her a minute to realize she told me she went to the game, she stumbled over it big time!! Don't get me wrong, I respect a woman that is truely honest and trustworthy. But some of them try too hard and just are not smart enough to cover their ass, and I am too smart to fall for it. Its one thing, if you don't want to be serious, and want to keep it open, and you have talked about it. Its another when they want to have their cake and eat it two and want to go through all the motions of a relationship. I wasted two months out of my life over it, and for that I resent her.
