Virgin with Extreme Orgasms, Is this normal?

Hey Guys,

Im glad I found this place!
Im new here, and Ive gone through a few Threads and loved how open people were about things, so I decided to come out of my shell and actually ask for peoples opinion on this Problem ive been having for a while now!


Im 23 years old and still a Virgin but I absolutely love Masturbating. I have seen and read enough reviews on the true meaning of an Orgasm, and I definitley get the exact same feelings (if not more) as a non-virgin Woman. Ive had many wet dreams where Im actually having sex in my dream & I can feel the pleasure, its really weird!!
Exept for foreplay, Ive never really had sexual intercourse with anyone, but everyone I meet seems to think Im an expert in Sex! I can give the best advice to Girls or Guys about pleasurable positions or things to do even though Ive never slept with anyone....

Is this normal??

 

Where have you been all my life????

 

What makes you say that they are extreme? How so?

But yes, totally normal. Orgasm intensity needn't depend on a partner. Some people have their best orgasms masturbating much more so than with a partner, for others it's the opposite, and often the strongest orgasms depend less on whether it's alone versus with someone than simply how it's being done and how much you can build up to it in either setting. Doing it entirely yourself versus having someone else do it definitely feel different, but one doesn't necessarily always mean superior to the other.

 

Its pretty normal for people to be able to get themselves off pretty good. I know I sure can. I don't think it has anything to do with being a virgin, other than the fact that you have no frame of reference, so your orgasms may not be as extreme as you think.

For me, actual sex is still way better than any masturbation I have done, but that might be different for girls, depending on the skill and generosity of their partner.

 

there's something not normal with you. go see a doctor and pray it's not cancerous.

 

i call bullshit

 

For those who dont believe me, I dont really need to prove myself to anyone or bullshit about this.. Im so embarrassed to even think about it, yet alone talk about it very openly on a Forum.

Its true that I do not have a frame of reference, that is what creeps me out. I love watching clips of Men Masturbating and reaching an Orgasm, that makes me Orgasm sooooo hard. Sometimes I have multiples, mind you I had no idea it was a Multipe until I read about it recently.. lol.
There are times I watch porn and can totally feel the pleasure of a Penis sliding in me and get 10 times hornier..

I think I have a strong way of Visualizing things that I have now started to actually feel them.. weird, I know.
I always think my Boyfriend will probably have one of the best sex lives EVER!!

 

I dont even really see why this would be BS...

Anyway, you may be building sex up too much... if you happen to get an attentive, generous, skilled lover the first time around maybe it will be all you are thinking it will be.... chances are better that you will not get as much out of it as you do from masturbation, without investing time, communication, and trust into a relationship.

 

welcome to the forums curious

 

BULLSHIT! (said by Martin Landau in the Tim Burton movie Ed Wood)

 

Well, everyone's supposed to go along and say, keep your virginity till you are comfortable having sex and all that, its your choice yada yada yada.

But 23 and still a virgin? Seriously what ARE you waiting for?

 

seriously. any girl can get laid anyday.

 

I was 21 'tillI had sex for the 1st time, hell my first kiss was at 20. Some of us are late bloomers is all, I don't regret it, though I hated it when I was 20!

 

Cut the drama, girl! You've got bautiful, strong orgasms, you've got sex info - it's A LOT more than many of your grilfriends have. Enjoy it! One day you'll met a boy you'll want to share your first intercourse with. I guarantee you you'll be gratefull for the knowledge you have now.
Since clitoris is your primary pleasure spot, why being a virgin should affect the intensity of your orgasms? There is no physical diffrence between you or your non-virgin friends except for maybe a bit of a thin membrane. Why should your orgasms be any less intense than other's? Penetration isn't the most effective form of stimulation for women. About 70% of women need to add clitoral stimulation to it to get off.

 

I dated a chick when I was 24, she was 25, and a virgin. Checked her snapperoo to see if she still had her produce and sure enough it was there, intact and unfettered. Funny thing was she was hot as all get out, but had a HORRIBLY LOW sex drive and barely got wet no matter how much activities we did. When she was finally ready to give it up I'd already been banging someone else on the side and turned her down. Hey, what comes around goes around. Make every excuse to get out of it - expect a fitting response.

Last I heard she was getting divorced. Can't imagine why. (sarcasm)

 

The best orgasm I've ever had was after me and my fiance smoked some of the dankest pot from a vaporizer. Just kissing her was like having a small orgasm and when we finished it was like our entire bodies were on fire. It was incredible.

Before that I used to have masturbation marathons when I was still in highschool. I would go to a free porn website with lots of high-quality stuff and load up hours worth of video and just masturbate for two to three hours without cumming. Plenty of lubrication and manipulation later I would shoot my cum almost to the ceiling doing my best not to alert everyone in the house of what I was doing...

Those days used to be my best orgasms ever 'cause I'm still training my fiance up on how to make me have a mind-blowing orgasm but the high sex just recently beat everything else for the both of us.

 

Hahah, I remember when I was like that... I think I was a super expert at masturbation before I lost my virginity (and still am) and could give myself orgasms that nearly blacked me out and made me stuttering and stupid for a few minutes afterwards. I was sooo excited to have sex, I mean if I can do that to myself with only my fingers imagine what it will feel like for REAL?

Anyway, I lost my virginity when I was 16 and I remember distinctly thinking 'Well it's going to get great any second now... he's just teasing me.' HAHAHA, no. No orgasm plus I was sorer and stickier! I had to try a few more times but then I came to a realization, if you want a boy to be good in bed you have to train him. If you find one and he's already good in bed, another woman before you has already trained him for you -- lucky you!

You'll give yourself better orgasms than the boy who you lose your virginity too, probably. You'll probably give yourself better orgasms than most guys, until you teach them what you like.

 

welcome to the forums, curious.
its normal for a virgin of your age.
HAVE SEX ALREADY!!

 

I think you're perfectly normal. I've also been having very strong orgasms through masturbation since I was very young, and I also have a vivid imagination. I think all those things lead to having a great sex life with someone later. Yay!

 

Nearly every woman who has posted here says that they orgasmed when they were preteen from masturbation. You sound perfectly normal to me.

My son, who is 22, is a virgin too. He says that the situation simply hasn't come his way yet, and while he's curious and girls find him attractive, he's cool with being patient. He simply hasn't found the right girl yet.

That first time will probably be awkward and strange, so keep up your handiwork and have an open mind about boyfriends.