So im 17 and i just woke up from one of the most confusing dreams of my life. I was on a schoolbus full of kids my age, but i got off at the wrong spot and ended up somewhere with people i didnt know. I start walking around for a bit through the crowd, and in a flash im in some othe teens room putting on a condom to fuck him. Here's the twist.. this guy clearly had a pussy, and I was fucking "it" like "it" was a woman; with "its" legs spread out and wrapped around me. Then the door opened and I didn't know how to react as a man that appeared to be his butler or father opened the door.. I'm pretty certain that i'm straight as deep down I desire love with the opposite sex, have been in several relationships, and during foreplay my dick is hard as ever. Also I masturbate to either straight or lesbiam porn. I love girls too much. All said and done, i'd be lying if my thoughts about perhaps having sexual attraction to other men did not follow me around. I've often heard that this is quite common during my age, but I cant help but question even this at times. Having doubts about myself really started when last year I was getting ready to have sex for the first time with my girlfriend and as I was putting the condom on, I started getting soft after being hard for about 45 minutes. An overwhelming feeling of humiliation washed over me and a little voice whispered in my head "she isn't the right one, you aren't ready yet". My second oppurtunity to have sex, which was about a month ago, ended the same way.. Am I truly not ready? Am I bi? I love females, but perhaps I have just been sexually frustrated in the past and this has damaged my perception.. Any input would be welcomed Thanks
You might be a little bi, but it's just a dream. Have you ever found a man attractive, I don't mean looking at it from a logical point of view and just judging their attractiveness, I mean looking at a guy and thinking they're hot in a sexual kind of way, then you might be a little bi.
Yeah, dreams can mean a lot of weird shit, definitely doesnt for sure mean that your gay, but you dont have to categorize yourself, do what feels right
well first off nothing wrong with being gay, but to make sure, just think about guys, all factors such as looks, emotinal, and what you think youd want with a guy. it might be telling you might be intrested in guys, and to check into that, but its not 100%, you just gota try and see whats right for you
Dreams can mean a great many things. I've had dreams where I've been sexual with men, but I am most assuredly not homosexual or any further into the gray zone than that I can judge whether or not a man is attractive. We're all a little bisexual, or at least that seems to be the general consensus, but I wouldn't buy into that hype too much. Like others have said, go with what feels right. You're haunted by these thoughts because you're full of doubt, uncertainty and inexperience, which is common at your age. Don't feel like you need to be with a man to find out for sure, rather try to be with a few women and see how you like that.
