boob job

Discussion in 'Feel Good Feminism' started by sobebella, Apr 15, 2009.

  1. sobebella

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  2. humancondition

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    i guess its because some women feel more confident with larger breasts? personally i like having small boobs, but my dad said that women with larger breasts attract men because its a primal instinct and its supposed to be because they can feed their children. i don't think that's true and my dad is weird, but i guess its more of a confidence thing that society has been feeding and shaping to be beauty. i don't know.
     
  3. sobebella

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    im going to have to agree, your dad is infact weird :p


    but ya, i geuss thats it, but if any one else has any comments id love to hear ^.^
     
  4. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Sort of analogous with the penis size obsession thing with the guys

    "All guys like big boobs" seems to be something the girls tend to beleive more than the guys do. There's at least 2% of the male population that really don't ;)

    But I think a lot of straight guys prefer smaller ones.

    Girls say stuff like its about confidence and self image, they never admit its in part about sex, about getting laid more
     
  5. sobebella

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    well that makes more sence now, sort of. (i mean the big boob for girls/big penis for guys)
    though i never realy seen the point in the compatition between guys eather lol. i mean no one wants a TINY one, but if its atleast norm size, and does the trick, i dont see the prob. geuss im weird like that lol
     
  6. odon

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    I reckon their is a grain of truth to that. Your dad is not that weird.

    Evolutionary psychologists theorize that humans' permanently enlarged breasts, in contrast to other primates' breasts, which only enlarge during ovulation, allowed females to "solicit male attention and investment even when they are not really fertile." British zoologist and ethologist Desmond Morris theorizes that cleavage is a sexual signal that imitates the image of the cleft between the buttocks , which according to Morris in The Naked Ape is also unique to humans, other primates as a rule having much flatter buttocks.
     
  7. sobebella

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    well, iv ansered my own question....


    i was in the bathroom putting on some avacado oat mask stuff (helps qith acne very well, and good skin never hurt) and thought about this thread, and ansered my own question. why did i give a crap about what my face looks like? i dono but i do and i geuss thats why a woman might get a boob job, and on another note, while i was in the bathroom looking in a mirror, i noticed i had very bushy eyebrows, any one know how i can thin them out?
     
  8. mystik_lilac

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    I think a lot of women do it for themselves. Because they feel better with them. Not necessarily just to attract men...
     
  9. sobebella

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    yeah, found that out on my own a lil after the last post i made hear :p thanx every one for your thoughts and insights!
     
  10. huntaa91

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    I believe that the media have somewhat made it appear as though most women get breast enlargements to attract males, eg Playboy. If it makes you feel good do it though, and that includes having it done for attention... However, I much prefer having smaller boobs simply because I know that if a guy likes me it's no because of the size of my tits.
    Alot of my friends always talk about how great it is when they get extra and sometimes free things because they flashed a little cleavage but they've also confessed to wanting smaller boobs...
     
  11. crankyelbow

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    If plastic introduced into the chest area makes a woman feel good...

    She is clearly confused in regard to happiness :)

    Really... consider the true implications of body modification... to say we are less than perfect, to say perfect is an image of someone else....

    Of course there is no good and bad... only what is. So with that said, boob jobs are not inherantly bad. The question must be raised, though, why go through the pain and suffering that will be inevitable as a result of body modification?

    Why not focus that energy on changing the world in such a way that women are happy with themselves in every moment of their lives?

    Action begets similar action... why would anyone want to see a world full of plastic people?
     
  12. sobebella

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    yes, true that, but i found the anser i was seeking my self the same day i made this thread and felt a bit stupid for having made this post lol


    its not realy about what others think, its about how you look at your self. i already said it but ill say it again, i found this looking in the mirrior and thinking about my eye brows. i dont care in the least what others think, but they are just a bit brushy for my liking, and now i can understand why a woman would feel the need to go under the knife for this and many other cosmetic surgerys.
     
  13. Mr.Good Cat

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    I'm not trying to be shallow but, this is how it is.. it just has to do with physical attraction. women need to be attractive to attract a mate. For men it's more of the alpha male thing, an ugly guy can get just as many girls as a good looking guy if he is the alpha male and the good looking guy is not confident.. I like bigger boobs on a girl, it's sexy. I would be more attracted to a girl with bigger boobs than smaller ones, if every thing else were equal...... Now that doesn't mean i like big boobs, i would if they looked nice, that's all i really care about, when the close come off do they look good. My girlfriend has small boobs, but they are awesome i love them they look great she is sexy as fuck b/c of this... My ex had big boobs they were ugly, really nasty, im not cool with that. But she was very sexy with her cloths on more so than my girlfriend now, because of what she has... I think a girl should be confadint with what she has, if she isn't it would effect how attractive she is to me... But thats just me, everyone is different. I don't have a big dick im fine with that, i know what to do with what i have, and im good because of that.. :cheers2:
     
  14. sam71865

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    Here is some thing to think about, if a man wants a lady to get a boob job and the lady likes the way she is, get rid of the big boob. I know a lady that got one for her self(thats the key), she went from a-cup to about a c-cup.

    P.S. personality is what counts in my book
     

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