I'm taking a Human Sexuality class and after today's meeting a few of us went to lunch and somehow got to comparing oral techniques. All of us had different little tricks that supposedly drive guys wild. It got me to thinking about how to do the best job ever. So guys... what made the best head you've ever got so special? Girls... what tricks do you have up your sleave that really seem to work for you? I learned a few things already today and I'm sure that we all could, too.
Here goes a tip. They find deepthroat sexy but unnecessary. We can do it to them (and I do that, too), but licking that sensitive spot right below the "head" while massaging the penis is much more pleasurable for them (well, us. Btw, I'm a guy lol) Now it's your turn. Tell us what you've learnt!
The best head I ever got, which for some reason almost all the head Ive gotten was just alright. Was when the girl licked and jacked my cock instead of just sucking. Sad I know. But most of the girls ive been with were just really not all that impressive in the department. Though they made up for it in other ways . There was this one girl who loved to deepthroat and swallow, but still she just wasn't that spectacular. Maybe Im too picky. A Tip, watch porn, they know how to give a good BJ. And just enjoy, stop trying to get me off, that would take to long. Just enjoy the experience and get me so ready to fuck I cant hold back anymore.
That's what I get mostly. My wife sucks and licks the head and a little below while she jerks it. I like deep throat, but she can't do it. And that's just fine. It's the whole experience that makes it good-- the way she looks at me, what she says and the sounds she makes, how she plays with herself while she sucks. Fantastic.
The best head I ever had was when the pressure was right both up and down, and no teeth grating on my cock.
mmmm.. I dont like the bitches with no teeth. I prefer meth free whores.. Teeth rule.. Nibble on my nuts.. plz..
The best head for me is when my wife fucks my ass with a vibrator while she gives me a blowjob........mindblowing.
Gag, spit, gag, gasp. Deeper... deeper... ALL THE WAY DOWN. Gag, spit, gasp. Repeat. Does that answer the question? Oh my.
The best I got was from the female simply putting half of my cock in her mouth and getting the side narrow part of her tongue quickly stimulating the underside of my dick's head and shaft. No ball play, no deep throat, no jerking me off while sucking - just that simple inside mouth tongue-side action and it created probably the best orgasms I've ever had before or since. The build up to the orgasms by her doing that were amazing as well. A few minutes of her talent and "bloop-bloop-bloop" the cum worked it's way slowly up the shaft like a percolator and followed by the holy grail of massive repeating payloads of cum shot out of my cock like rounds out of a Desert Eagle. I think old left behind chunks of aged load lingering on the walls of my plumbing from previous mediocre orgasms that never fully discharged came out with the loads I shot from this woman's exceptional sucking talents. Put it to you this way - my plumbing was sore for the next couple of days afterwards from shooting so much load. Any guy that's blown a 100% flushing of his plumbing from a killer suck or fuck will know what I mean. As for the woman who performed these acts of beautiful affection, she was too bonkers for me in the relationship sense. But that's how it goes, huh folks? The best are always missing screws in critical places. The wife does a pretty good job of sucking my poison out but she says her mouth is "too small" (ha-ha) to do any specialized tongue tricks. One day I'll get her there though. Not on my current list of priorities - have a kitchen and garage that needs updating.
My best friend and I have given each other blowjobs for years, in between girlfriends and wives. I must say that he gives the best bj I've ever had. He and I each deepthroat each other, and I would never think of spitting out his delicious cum. I swish it around in my mouth after he gets off to get a good taste of it before swallowing. I suck and jerk at the same time. There is also a pressure point right behind the balls that I rub and it drives him crazy. Sometimes I stick my finger in his anus and massage his prostrate and this also works wonders.
Obviously this should be discussed about ahead of time unless you want criminal charges but what I've always wanted a guy to do (and only have gotten one to do), not often by any means but every once and a while is sometime randomly (maybe when I'm coming out of the shower, that way I'm already basically naked ) just grab me and throw me on my knees, grab my hair and shove your cock in my mouth and go to town. I'm not a guy so I can't know for sure but I figure that's probably a sexy scenario for a guy right? And it works for me too, win-win. Also and this is just me personally (as I do know some girls (weird ones) are different than me in this area) but when I am going down on you don't ask 'where do I want 'it'?' But seriously, if I'm trying to slurp your entire cock down my throat isn't it kind of obvious where I want 'it'? Again, I do know a lot of girls who do like to be asked but I've always thought it was a funny question... some day I'm going to say 'ON MY ELBOW' and see what happens.
I'm in total agreement, albeit on the opposite gender end. Throw that muff in my face and I'm good to go. Find that clit with my lips and start sucking it which gives what appears to be a very quick and hard orgasm.
What I've noticed guys like is when you pay attention to their balls a lot. So what things did you learn?
yea, I agree, I love my wife to lick and suck my balls as well, licking my shaft is hugely erotic, and I love it when she uses no hands on my cock, just her lips
I like for the girl to really be into it. Some don't care for giving head and point out that "it isn't called a 'job' for nothing", but there actually are some that don't mind or even like doing it. If it's obviously a chore, I'm not enjoying it so much, but if she acts like she enjoys doing it, I find it more enjoyable and exciting. I also enjoy it being done slowly. I've known girls to vigorously bob their head like it's a cock-sucking race of some kind, but I find that going too fast not only wears them out faster but is less enjoyable for me. I had a girl do it real slowly and passionately and she could probably have dragged it out for hours had it not driven me out of my mind.
my guy tells me he doesn't like the deep throating. he likes me to just pay all my attention to the head, and get him off that way!