When someone tell you that they love you, regardless if you do, or if you don't, do you feel obligated to say it? I think it's one of those things.
I rarely say it....that makes it worth more when I do ...I also never..or rarely ever say goodbye or goodnight
i like doing a fake out i say "i love" to a lady and then i pause and wait to see if her eyes light up...and i look back at her with puppy dog eyes and say "i love cookies" and smile
If its the first time the word has been said within the couple, and both people feel the same way, i think its good that they both say it.
insanity is love, love is insanity and so on, if you believe in the insanity you secretly do believe in love. srsly
I used to...hell, it was awhile of me saying it back to Daniel as just a reflex before I was really sure that I did love him. But now...no...I only say it when I mean it. And on the interwebz. www.love.cum Or something.
I understand what you mean I've felt that pressure before, I hate saying it if I don't mean so I just get "real" and tell'em how I feel. Might not get the nookie but at least whom ever she is at the time knows that I'm not a bullshitter. Trustworthiness > all.