Whenever my gf get's mad at me she alwasy acts pissy and has a huge attitude, but never seems to want me to tell me what the hell I did wrong. She seems to think I should just know. And sometimes I do, I know I'm not perfect, and I say dumb stuff sometimes. But there are times when she is just unexplainably mad, and acts like I should know what about. It really kinda pisses me off cause I feel like she's playing games with me. It would all be easier if she would just tell me what it was so I could start making her feel better. She also does this thing where she tries to blame me for everything. She had concert tickets in her purse for a week once, and when we got to the concert she couldn't find them, so she insisted she gave them to me, and I was the one that lost them. I had never had my hands on them in the first place. Same goes for quite a bit of things she misplaces. She doesn't ask me if I have them or have seen them, she pretends to know i had them, and that I lost them. So whats the problem here? Do I have a drama queen on my hands? We've been together 5 months, and I'm starting to think one of us are losing our minds...
Sounds to me like she is the problem. Why dont you try explaining to her how you are feeling without coming across as if you are attacking her. Let her know that you cant read minds and so it would be better if she could clue you in as to what she gets upset at you over so that you could fix the problem or whatever seems to be the problem. If she seems to be blaming you for things without merit, then thats wrong of her to do. Communication is key, and she will either be willing to listen and make things better or she wont, in which case you will atleast know where she stands. Anyway, thats just my opinion....Im in an advice giving kinda mood I think
hey man listen up!!! One of my really good friends has a chick JUST LIKE THAT!! You know where he is now? He's barely 20 and stuck in a marriage with her. You may think this will get better but just how do you think that will happen? Think about her reaction if you told her you hate the way she acts towards you when things go wrong. Scary? I'll bet. My friend thought he could change her. You can't change people like that. They have to do it themselves. Everything seemed toletable at first, but the longer they were together, the more she controlled. He's not allowed to have his own cell phone for anything other than doing homework online, he's not allowed to hang out anywhere with out her. She says who can come over to thier house and who he can be friends with. She hits him and embarasses him in public. She manipulates him to the point that he is too confused to stand up or himself. She even got him to marry her when he really wasn't into it. My point really is that girls like this generally get worse. You let her act this way so why does she have a reason to stop? There are LOTS of nice girls out there that will want to treat you like a fellow human being- not just some arm candy to take the heat whenever things go wrong. Run my friend! Run and don't look back. You will be happier alone and in control of your life than with someone who treats you like a dog.
Wow, thats pretty crazy. Usually you hear of the man doing that to the woman, but I guess there is all kinds. I don't know how serious it is between you guys, but you definitely need to approach this issue with her at some point, before getting too serious or settled in.
