help, please?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by illusions, Oct 31, 2004.

  1. illusions

    illusions Member

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    Okay, so.

    You have sex on several occasions within a short period of time. Say a few days or so, almost a week. 99% of it is *protected* sex, and 1% is not, although, the guy made sure to pull out with a significant amount of time before orgasming. Say, a good minute and a half, and that includes him jerking off in that time to finish the job. A condom was used on all other occasions.

    1. So much sex in so little time. Is that capable of delaying one's period, or throwing it off course? Perhaps by six days or so.

    2. You always hear about couples who try to have children. Sometimes there isn't anything necessarily wrong with either of them. They are both very capable of doing so, it just takes time. The man finished completely inside of the woman, and still, no baby!
    Either that, or sometimes guys accidently finish inside, and in some cases, still no baby.
    I'm rambling. My question here is. Obviously, if you are going to pull out, pre cum is exposed to the vagina. I figure that if a man can orgasm and cum inside a woman, unprotected, and still she comes out unfertilized, then the odds of one becoming pregnant off of another's pre cum are awfully slim.

    Right?

    And are not vaginal secretions a natural spermicide?

    And 3. Is anyone aware of any natural methods to induce one's period?



    Shit. I'm probably worrying over nothing.
    I used to date this guy. He'd pull out at the last fucking minute, and every month my period would come a little later. Needless to say, I would flip the fuck out over this, and eventually wound up dumping his ass. I'm sure stress had a bit to do with it's lateness. That is also probable in this case.

    I suppose I'm just seeking words of comfort. =/
     
  2. HappyHaHaGirl

    HappyHaHaGirl *HipForums Princess*

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    Someone told me that drinking parsley tea would induce your period... I was going to try it, but I miraculously started three days early without drinking it... It was weird. I've heard that the statistics for getting preggers with the withdrawal method are like one in four, but I got pregnant the first time I did it without one... he didn't pull out, actually. I lied. :( A lot of it also depends on where you are in your cycle. You should figure out when you're fertile and stuff, like natural childbirth. You can figure it out online, or maybe ask your doctor. Birth control rocks.... and it's easily available. It will cut your stress factor by like 99%.... haha

    I don't know if having a lot of sex will mess up your period, unless you get pregnant. I've never heard of anything like that before, but I'm not an expert.

    Good luck with all that. :)

    /*happy*/
     
  3. FallenFairy

    FallenFairy Senior Member

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    you have nothing ot worry about. your probly overstressed and thats why your period isnt coming. Or (not to be rude or mean) your still young and you dont have a regualr period.
    and yes a womens vaginal secretion is a natural spermicide for the fact that it is very acidic compared to the males cum
     
  4. velvet

    velvet Banned

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    Damn... why don't you take birthcontrol pills if you don't have sex with condoms EVERY time? Ofcourse the changes of getting pregnant from precum aren't huge.. but there are also people that get pregnant although they use both condoms and the pill at the same time! Both condom and the pill aren't 100% sure to avoid pregnancy.. but really.. take a test if you worry and *learn* from this.. you're young.. don't make a huge mistake by getting pregnant at that age!
     
  5. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    I used to just use the pull out method and never got pregnant that way-but it wasn't smart either. I am always late so I don't know what to ell you. If you are stressed or not eating enough it could make it a little late.
     
  6. 8footsativa_chik

    8footsativa_chik Waka Chang-Chang

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    Um someone told me that if you rubbed and massaged your ankles, like around your acilies heel mainly, it would induce your period so it came earlier than expected. It actually does work too (slight off topicness:p).
    Good luck.
     
  7. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    Take a pregnancy test, it will more than likely give you a negative result, and your period will probably start right afterwards. *lol* That's what would bring mine on when I was concerned. Most of the time, it would happen just a few hours after I took the test. Course, the only times I've ever been late have been when I was pregnant. I'm like clockwork. But if I was due to start on a particular day, and the day was going on and still nothing, I'd start to panic (for me to become pregnant again would be possibly fatal) I'd end up going out and wasting money on a HPT and get a big, fat negative, but it made me feel better to know, and then my period would end up starting anyway. ;)

    Good luck, and try to relax. Stress can delay that period from making her appearance.

    Much peace.
     
  8. James

    James Member

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    Me and my girlfriend did it without one once but i did pull out in plenty of time...then we became worried because we found out both thatyou CAN get pregnant form precum and that that was her most fertile time of the month (the time we had sex). Alright to make a long story short we got really worried despite almost ten other couples telling us that they do it without one all the time and we have nothing to worry about. So then the time came for her period it was late....then a week late....then two weeks late....by this time we were getting so worried that she cried herself to sleep a few times we thought our lives were over (she was 16 at the time)....well then in a little under THREE weeks late she got it after all. We talked to some poeple baout it and found out that sress can delay your period for very long...even longer then that. So if your stressed out (about that in particular or anything else) that could be whats wrong even if it seems like worst case scenerio. But trust me i know how you feel i went through it with her...its a horrible feeling.
     
  9. peacefuljeffrey

    peacefuljeffrey Senior Member

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    Isn't it more likely that the whole reason it seems like the test precipitated your period is because you only bothered to take the test because your period was due and you were worried it wasn't coming and so you decided to check to see if you were pregnant?! (So it was going to probably happen soon anyway!)

    -Jeffrey
     
  10. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    Um, okay. I'm sorry, maybe my post wasn't interpreted the way I meant it. It was supposed to be funny. I wasn't implying that if you take a test that you'll get your period, like it's some magical solution or something. Geez! I was simply sharing what has happened with myself, and how my worrying was for nothing.

    I was being humorous. Sheesh!
     
  11. velvet

    velvet Banned

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    Don't worry.. I think the females got the joke ;)
     
  12. illusions

    illusions Member

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    I was stressing over nothing. I knew it. My period came this morning. :] Whoo.
     
  13. see in blonde

    see in blonde Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    A girl I am very close to (so I know it's not bullshit), got preg the first time her boyfriend and her had sex. He pulled out with plenty of time to spare. Just so you know, when guys are having sex, an above average amount of precum is constantly coming out... It's more so than if we are whacking it or during foreplay. You probably have nothing to worry about, but it COULD happen. Is six days late odd for you? If you usually are regular, six days is a lot. I had a lot of pregnancy scares with my last girlfriend so I def. know how you feel. Get an EPT test, that is the only way to know...Good luck.

    EDIT: Didn't see your last post. I'm glad it was just a scare.
     

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