best friends girlfriends are bitches....

that about explains it.....my two closest friends are now with 2 totally selfish greedy bitches. but because they are with my freinds, i always end up having to be around them.
what should i do? i dont wanna just tell my friends what i think of their girls but i cant stand their selfish, self-centered personalities anymore.

 

hang around him when they aren't together?

edit: sorry i didn't realize this was in Men's Issues, my bad

 

They just want to get laid. Leave them be.
Soon you will have your own. And they will hate her.

 

It gets worse when your friends marry their bitches

 

Women are allowed to post here, the topic just has to be about a mens issue.

To OP; just dont hang out with your friends as much, but still be good friends. If it comes up in conversation, just say that their girlfriends are annoying, but dont tell your friends they're bitches.

What makes them selfish and greedy?

 

I would not give the boys my opinion of their girlfriends unless asked for it.
But they shouldn't be hanging out with their girls constantly. It is important to have time for friends as well.

However, if they are your age, like BBAD said, they just want to get laid. Understandable.

 

for example, one of the girlfriends, lets call her jill, was going to chill with a mutual friend of ours, lets call her pam. before jill got to pam's house, pam's 5 year old brother had an allergic reaction to shellfish and had to have an ambulance come. naturally, pam was worried about her brother and forgot to tell jill not to come over. jill gets there, flips out that pam diddnt call and tell her not to come and bitches about how now her time and gas has been wasted, then proceeds with nearly running over pam

you would think jill could have some consideration and sympathy ya know? but she was more worried about her own gas and time...


the girlfriends do small shit like refusing to give people rides when neither pay for gas and have full tanks, i then am stuck doing it even if im running on empty and broke. the smaller shit is more annoying than the first situation ive noted but you get the picture

 

mr. morrison,

You don't like these girls. You don't have to hang out with them. You do have a decision to make. Is the upside of hanging with your friends greater than the downside of hanging with these girls?

Perhaps spending more time with friends who are better at choosing girlfriends would be a plan.

Its also possible that spending time with your own girlfriend would make things better.

 

i always thought the key to keeping a good man was being good to his friends, too. i don't think enough women understand this.

 

tis true

 

one of my friendships has gone down hill because of the girl he married. he used to be in our close group of friends - but we all hate her. so our friendship is a bit stretched now. my other friends (the close circle of friends) feel the same about this situation. we can't stand her.

his choice though and he chose her. she was the safe choice for him.

 

to the OP

honestly you are only 18, chances are these bitches will be gone shortly..you graduate soon don't you?

i agree dont straight up tell your friends how you feel unless asked..but i doubt they will be around long, hopefully your friends will realize that they are bitches (if they truly are) sooner rather than later...and perhaps hushbull is right perhaps its only for the fuck

 

my husband's best friend is a full on misogynist deluxe. yet he'll hand me the keys to his pride and joy dodge diesel whenever i need to borrow it. never anyhing but respect for me.

 

it was ridiculous. they had rented a house out off campus with a couple other friends...she wouldn't even allow us to come over to hang out unless it was planned and she OK'd it - otherwise she'd yell and get all pissy with her b/f. he then would cave in and we'd have to leave. he wasn't allowed to come out with us much at all.

he had broke up with her twice before...said he'd never go back to her.

if you're one of my close friends, and i see a woman not treating you right, (and this is the same with all my close friends, we all do it for each other) we're going to tell you about it, whether you ask us or not. we don't put on fake smiles for each others girls...if we don't like them, we'll tell you about it.

 

no doubt. keep it simple.

 

I completely agree... I hated my mans friends.. hated them.. lol.. for good reasons they are a bunch of pill poppers who only care about themselves.. but anyways.. I'm still nice as shit to them.. not fakey nice just nice.. they are just going to drive their boyfriends away with shit like that.. I'd just stand back and let it all happen.. if they are as bad as you say they are, they wont be around for long.. ( hopefully lol )

 

Difficult one- at a young age your friendship should last longer than their gf- sometime in the future you'll look at this and laugh. We all have different tastes, and there are some men who will put up with a lot just to have regular sex.

 

i personally hate the bitch my friends dating too all she calls him for is for material things....