Really dont know what to do..

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by jim1976, Apr 22, 2009.

  1. jim1976

    jim1976 Member

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    I got in contact with an ex girlfriend from 6years ago on facebook, I was like wow! strangle I found she was the same great to hear from you etc... Shes engaged too but thats ok! only wanted my friend back! most importent to me. Problem is for some unknown reason she deleted me! I can get hold of her just dont know if I should. Any advice?
     
  2. Carlfloydfan

    Carlfloydfan Travel lover

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    Way to double post, but the fact remains, leave her the hell alone! Don't even bother her. She added you long enough to prove to you that she has moved on (engaged) and you have not.

    Time to move on dude, it has been six years!!
     
  3. Incesticide

    Incesticide Member

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    Depends how she feels about you really.
    Maybe she knows it's too hard to stay just friends with you because she'll end up gaining feelings again or mixed feelings or something.
    Other than that, all you can do is tell her the fine line that you only want to become friends through a private message or something.
     
  4. Green_Goddess

    Green_Goddess Member

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    she may want to talk to you but maybe her fiance isn't comfortable with it and she's respecting that.. I'd leave it up to her if she wants to contact you or not.. plus if her man doesn't like it then the more you message her and what not the more it's going to cause problems for her..
     
  5. jim1976

    jim1976 Member

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    Dont know about showing me she was engaged and happy... I think all the f... my life stuff and saying its over with stupid boyfriend etc didn't strike me as a picture of happyness. Reminded me of what she could be like stayed away from that... I am over her but I still care, I'm friends with most of my other ex's.
     
  6. addictedt0chaos

    addictedt0chaos Lunar Dreadlocks

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    She did it either because of her fiance or shes just over that part of her life [ the part that included you] as harsh as it may sound :/
     

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