Here is the problem I look like a girl or gay. I am a 21 year old male and I went to the docter and tested my testosterone levels and it was ok. They also checked my body and genitals to see anything abnormal and again they said it was ok. The problem is I get called a homosexual everywhere I go and Im sick of it cause Im not, I like girls. Do any of you ever had these problems and where should I go for help, I mean is there some sort of specialist on the matter.
At your age I can understand why it bothers you, it bothered me at 21 also. I still get it but at my age I don't care anymore. Just try to ignore it and be your own person, don't let others try to define you. Run after those girls and have fun.
i have never had that problem. i was born male, and i have always looked male. most people are ignorant, and some are just stupid. i think, they might be asking, if your gay out of respect to you and, protecting themselves too, by that, i mean, they might be bi or gay themselves and, they are unsure about making a pass at you. it still happens today, that, if gay people make a pass at the wrong person, they will get the shit beaten out of them. my problem is this though. even though i am male and look it too. as a child i never acted like a boy, i never acted like a girl either. i still don't act like a boy or girl. straight people always asked me if i'm gay, and gay people are always asking me if i'm straight. it gets quite annoying, as i'm sure you know yourself! never the less, i have found that most people, ask out of consideration of how go about interacting with me. some other people, are just crude jerks that need to learn some basic social skills. you might try doing what i do. with the first group. they are acting out of consideration; be gential with them. with the jerks. i just blow them off, and stay away from them as best as i can.
