I thinkt hat is the root of many problems between women and men. we take you at face value and you cant believe we are simple as we are.
I would advise looking up his natal chart, could provide some clues as to waht would be the best way to approach him.... I guess I'm only speaking for myself here, but I'm not so simple.... I rather enjoy guarded signals and such, trying to figure it out.... Hell I don't even understand my own psyche though...