I know loves there but he doesn't...(I need a guy on this)

I told him last night that I think I'm in love with him and that it's been making me crazy for a week, hanging out with him almost every day and doing/saying STUPID things.

He's moving to Florida in June, made the decision a few days after we started being more serious than a crush (sex). He's moving for sure. Never been anywhere and wants to explore the world. I WANT him to go. I know he should.

His reaction was to say that he CANT stay here and that it isn't fair. I said that I'm not asking him to stay. He said he has to force himself from falling in love with me since he CAN'T stay here. He also said he doesn't know if he loves me. That's ok with me.

I just wanna know what a guy thinks about what he said. I know sometimes guys (people) lie in order to get around guilt and being straightforward, but I sense that he is genuine. His last words were that he'd call me tomorrow (which is now today )

any guys?

 

guys are so oblivious when it comes to feelings. sorry im not a guy, but he definitely feels something for you. to me it looks like hes scared to commit, which is a problem that sooo many guys have (mine included, kind of). id say if it was meant to be, he'll come back to you someday. all you can do is hope and wait. patience is very very important when it comes to love, people dont realize this.

 

I don't think love truly exists unless both parties feel the same way.
When it's one-sided it's not really love.
He doesn't love you right now, at least not yet, as i myself have said similar things simply to make the girl feel better about the whole situation....it just sounds better than "No I don't love you. You were just a temporary thing."
I've known plenty of girls to do similar things, so I'm sure you understand somewhat.

good luck and i hope that if things don't work out you find a better guy.

 

sounds like he is being straight forward with you. he just doesnt want to get more involved with you knowing he is about to move. cant get anymore blunt than that

 

In love or In heat?

 

to be honest, I'm not sure. I've got a horrible track record of getting with assholes and so my sex drive has been just not there for years and years and with him, it's completely different. so it could just be heat...I don't know

 

I love you, the check's in the mail, I won't cum in your mouth...

Yeah, we say a lot of things.

 

Well, he hasn't called. I want to take him out this weekend to this great band I think he'd like, but I don't want to freak him out by calling him first. Should I just call him anyway? or leave him alone.