This has worried me for a long time. i'm a late bloomer and i don't know if im done growing. im 19 now and my penis is maybe 4.5-5 inchs long and 4inches in girth. this problem has prevented me from getting close to girls because im afraid i won't be "enough". any advice? should i just get really good at oral?
Stop stressing on it, and realise that the clit is where its at 99% of the time, and no dick will hit the clit. We should ALL get really good at oral, size not withstanding.
Plus bud, if you are in the situation where a girl wants to have sex with you, she's probably impressed enough with you. it's not everything. Learning fast helps too lol the sooner you figure out what pleases the more she enjoys it...
From the numerous girls I've talked to about this subject, I can honestly tell you that most women could care less about size if they like the guy. So you have nothing to worry about.
Being female, I can tell you that it's not what you have, but how you use it. Yeah, oral would be really good to know, but that goes for any guy. There's nothing wrong with your size and all the girls I know won't care at all about how "big" you are. It's the relationship, not the sex that counts, at least in our own opinion.
:nopity: let me tell you. i've had my share of different sized dicks. my ex's was 8 inches, not exactly sure the girth but he couldve ripped me if he was any bigger. my current man is smaller, still above average but i prefer his dick because i love him and he knows how to please me in bed and is totally unselfish in bed.
I had the BEST orgasm of my life with a guy that had it roughly 12cm- the average for a white man is 16 cm... He had perfect body his face was hot he was very tall and he knew where to hit it... my G spot is in a unusual place and he did a small research down there and found it right away... He could last for soo long... The whole building heard me that night... On the other side I've had a black boyfriend last year.. Very experienced. Former football player and sprinter for the university here... He has it huge... I mean 25cm that big... and I can't complain that he didn't satisfy me but I didn't always have an orgasm. If he was not careful enough and put it all in by mistake... it hurt A LOT.. and then I couldn't have an orgasm due to the pain... So just find a girl that matches ur size....
Dont worry about it. You are well within the average of an adult male. It's also good to mention that nerve endings are more dense in the first 1/3 portion of the vagina so deep stimulation is not always needed. If the girl is into you enough to have sex you're fine. So go out there find a girl, get your dick hard and enjoy the fuck out of it. You only go around once.
I'm guessing he meant to say circumference, not girth. If you look on these forums, you'll find women saying that most guys they've been with have had a 7"+ dick. My theory is that they are exaggerating either because they want to feel special or they just don't know how to measure by eye very accurately. Average size is right at 5" according to most surveys/studies done. You've got nothing to worry about (unless you've fallen victim to the same inaccurate method of measurement and your penis is actually like 3 inches).
