Lately I've been really interested by anal and I've been sort of mentioning it to my boyfriend. When I told him that I want to be analed(for the first time ever) he was just unsure about what to think of it,so he isn't totally sure about it yet. Anyone have any idea how I could possibly get my boyfriend to partake in giving me anal?
once I was bangin this chick and she said ''fuck me in my ass..please please fuck me in my ass''...it worked...try it...also your boyfriend hasnt realized it yet but he has hit the girlfriend goldmine
I see this here all the time -- how do I "get" my partner to... Well, just ask. I'd recomend asking him for vaginal sex from behind and either before or during, ask him to fuck you in the ass (If he likes "dirty" talk, ask him in just that way.) I think if you are on all fours with your ass in the air, in state of readiness, he may find it hard to resist. Make sure you have lube on hand. In other words, be prepared. You can apply the lube to his penis for him and or ask him to apply with his fingers in your ass. Just use plenty and go very slowly. If he doesn't want to do it, don't pressure him. Let it go, and later, maybe when you're cuddling after sex, ask him about it -- what he's thinking and what his reservations might be. If he doesn't want to talk about it, drop it. Beyond that, you'll have to use your instincts as to whether or not you want to bring it up again and how long you should wait. That will be based on his reaction. At some point, you may have to resign yourself to the idea he just won't do it. If you have an otherwise satisfying sex life, then it may be something you just have to live with. My wife really doesn't like it. She'll do it once in while to please me, but knowing she's not into it, it takes some of the pleasure away. So we rarely do it. EDIT: I didn't see the post above, but yeah -- ask him for it in the throws of passion. He'll likely go for it.
I remember one time I penetrated a girlfriend anally, which she protested about, and I had to withdraw. However, since then she has said that she was surprised at how arousing she found the experience & next time we meet would like to go for it again, only next time, all the way.
hahaha, this is true. most girls are too afraid to try anal or do anything extremely kinky. i think that's why my boyfriend puts up with my occasional bitchiness. because he knows that there isn't another girl around that would be as kinky as he is in bed. xD
Well I love all the advice everyone gave me,THANKS! I shall put all those tips to work and see how things work out
Make sure you lube up his cock .. then look at him then tell him to fuck your ass... guide him thru it.. go slow.. its a life time gift enjoy.. I love getting and giving!
I would have to agree. I think it's soooo hot when girls want to get fucked in their asses, especially if it's their first time, it shows their adventurous and kinky, and open minded to try something that might be painful or against the social norm. Anal can be a very very pleasurable experience, even for your first time, but it can a bad experience if done wrong. Just make sure you clean your ass out good. And use lots of lube. I don't agree with ROLLINGALONG, just sticking his cock up your ass, that might hurt, especially if you're a virgin. My girl was able to take me up her butt without any warm up, just lube, but not all girls can do that, my girl is a natural. The ass needs to be relaxed and warmed up a lot more than your vag. The ass needs careful skillful attention to yield ecstasy. The tongue and the finger are the weapons of choice, especially the tongue. The tongue is soft warm and non-threatening, it will easily go up even the tightest girls butt. Once he is done giving your butt a nice hot deep kiss with lots of tongue action, move to fingers and/or small toys like a butt plug. For lube use water based if using condoms, for no condoms use a good fragrant free hypo-allergenic lotion for sensitive skin. You don't want any chemicals causing any burning or discomfort, none of that victoria secret stuff, I learned that the hard way, that sweet smelling stuff made my girls ass burn. Anal is something special, especially if it's the first time for both of you, it's an experience none of you will ever forget. Your man will be begging you for anal after he tries it, seeing your tiny butt hole stretched to capacity by his member, while he watching he cock split your cheeks is amazing visual and tactile excitement. Anal is a very tight and warm sensation, which most guys like, I don't know any guy that likes loose holes on their cock, the tighter the better, and the ass is about as tight as it gets without causing discomfort. Ashleylove: You are so right. Not that my wife is a bitch or anything, I love her to death, the anal is a plus for sure though. When you have a freaky girl, it's kind of like a high performance sports car, they are more of a hassle than your less exotic econo box grocery getter, butt you love to drive them so much it's worth the hassle. Also after a little argument, there is nothing like make up anal sex, it's amazing. I would also like to say thank you for being open minded, we need more women like you that are willing to push the limits and try new things.
