Me and my fiance have tride many things but nuthing seems to work for us. I can make her cum like no tomorrow but when it come to her making me cum it doesnt work. She's used her hands we've tried lubrication, she has given me a blow job and after 30 min nuthing. I mean it feels freakin godly but nuthin happends but that i might but no shut down. the only thing that we have found that works is tity fucking but she doesnt like doing that. What should we do?
That includes intercourse? You can cum when you tit-fuck, but not from a blowjob? Doesn't sound like a physiological reason. I'm baffled. Good luck.
Are you cut/uncut? Can you come from intercourse? Have you considered the prostate? A little butt plug might be all you need to get there...
Not enough information. I do think that if you can blam between two breasts, then you might find the same true between two ass cheeks (no penetration, in case she asks.) But that leaves you telling how you love her pigtails, not enough. Can you masturbate without difficulty and in good time? If so, you've got psychological issues. I said psychological, not psychiatric! C'mon guy, sex isn't so simple as providing no information yet expecting answers. How about age, location, cock experience, etc. Geez, you want help but remain stupidly anonymous. Give with some more info. Or better yet, get off your ass and go see a sex therapist - they know what they're doing
You are very fortunate, as the two of you obviously deeply love each other, since you're getting married, in spite of your moderate sexual disfunction. Have both of you tried mutual masturbation? In this forum, this specific advice is perfectly obvious and natural, as masturbation is the gold standard to which all forms of sex are subconsciously compared to. We find it a real thrill, and hope that both of you discover it to be the same. Let us know if you try it.