So, we've been together for 2 years, have two kids, etc. From the get-go, our sex life has been awesome. (I'm the luckiest dude alive, because she absolutely LOVES giving head, and LOVES anal sex, too. ) Well, soon after we got together, I professed to her that I had a major ass fetish, which included a desire for her to work me over, you could say. She thought the idea was hot, but nothing really came of it. About a month or so ago, we took a trip to the toy store as a date. We got her some bullets, me a bullet and a plug, and came home to play. The night was fun, though she was intimidated by not wanting to hurt me. Fast forward to Wednesday. Started the day sexting her while she was at work, and apparently hit a switch. I was promised that she was going to give it to me right when she got home, which she did. Apparently, she had a BSDM fetish that she'd only been playing the Sub in. Damn, can she dominate. (I already can't believe that I wrote this much...I'm a shy person by nature, but I figured what the hell...) Another bit of our history: She was a dedicated lesbian for years before I met her, and she damn sure knows how to work her "cock", as it were. I can't wait to go back for more bedroom "accessories". She was showing me some bondage stuff she wants to buy, spreader bars and such, and it only seems that life will get even more interesting as we play this course. Now we get to look forward to interesting nights of sex for a lifetime, alternating roles as Dom/Sub. So glad I proposed to this woman. She's a keeper. PS: Sorry for the rant, but other than her, there's no one that I can openy talk to about this stuff, and I'm excited like a kid on Christmas morning.
Technically, one is from her previous marriage. That's beside the point, though. Money has been our major limiting factor, and she has a special date that she wants to have the ceremony in October. Believe me, I am all for 'eloping', even though we're 28 and 23; just sounds like fun and adventure. Sneaking off on the weekend in 'secret' (uhhh, how can it be secret if you have to arrange a sitter, but whatever.lol.). To the other poster: Yeah, definitely fell in love with this lady several times so far, for many reasons. Who doesn't love a forced spontaneous BJ; as well, who doesn't love being told to do the tabboo deed, or else? Did I mention that not only does she love giving head, but is absolutely the best at it that I have ever met? And she's not a 'ooh, that's nice' kinda anal-girl, she's a "FUCK MY ASS, BITCH!!!" kinda anal-girl. It's very nice. I love this place. Freedom of speech is so not dead after all!:cheers2:
That's so awesome your girl is sexually adventerous. Get married when you can, marriage doesn't mean much. Me and my girl are married, and shit is EXACTLY the same as when we were not married, it's just a damn piece of paper, what matter is the love that the paper represents. Marriage is a spiritual connection between two being, not a legal document. Just like you don't need a marriage contract to prove that you love your parents, it's self evident. I love it when girls are freaky. My girl is not as aggressive as yours, she is more submissive, but she is a freak and LOVES anal. I think if I stopped fucking her ass she would divorce me. I love women's butts, I am obsessed with big butts, it's my weakness, and thankfully my girl has a big ol' booty, and she loves to get it filled with my tongue, my cock, and my cum. She likes when when I really dominate her and fuck her in her ass really hard. She's not into BDSM, but she loves aggressive anal for sure.
:cheers2:Maybe our SOs are long lost twin sisters, then. I got the 'evil' one, apparently. Not complaining. lol. Definitely love a nice round ass, by which my lady is well endowed. I like your take on marriage, and whole-heartedly agree. We've been told by everyone we know that we act like we are anyway; it's just how we handle our everyday lives, I guess.
If you are happy with your girl and she is happy with you, and you both are cool with being just common law, more power to you. It really does not matter in the long run. A piece of paper is not going to magically make you love one another, seriously. I think people are excited about the idea of marriage, like the ceremony, the dress, the cake etc..., than actually thinking about the fact that they are going to be with this person through thick and thin, forever. That's how I am with my wife. I have known her since we were in high school, and we were friends way before be were together, so we have a very solid relationship, that's the stuff marriages are built on, not paper. If you build your marriage out of paper, it's going to be weak like paper in my opinion. Marriages should be build out of the energy of love, because love is the energy of life, and the second law of thermodynamics says that: energy once it exists, cannot be destroyed, but simply transformed from state to state. Just like a relationship, you gotta compromise, and roll with the flow, that's how things stay exciting, spontaneous, and fresh.
I get really tired of the old piece of paper argument. Marriage isn't for everyone, but I assure you, if you choose a traditional marriage, it doesn't mean your marriage is "built out of paper," nor is "weak like paper." Where do people get these ideas? We enjoyed and cherished out wedding ceremony, but recognized it purely for it's symbolic value. It's ridiculous to suggest that we or most married couples don't understand and appreciate the deeper meaning and commitment of marriage simply because they wish to have a wedding with all the trappings. As far as the paper is concerned, whether or not you believe in marriage as a a religious or social institution, there's no denying that it grants certain rights, protections, and benefits -- both legal and practical. They vary from state to state, but usually include tax benefits, estate planning benefits and some government benefits. So, if you are truly committed, I ask you, what are the disadvantages of marriage? Don't forget, things can go south with any relationship and as distasteful as divorce might sound, it does offer some means or framework for a devision of property and assets, as flawed as it sometime is. Palimony cases can be difficult to prove and without a marriage, the process of determining parental custody can be a nightmare. So, if the love is there, the trust, the commitment -- the things on which successful long term relationships are based -- then why not just make it legal? The benefits outweigh the disadvantages, it's that simple. I suspect in some cases, it's out of fear of commitment -- wanting to ensure there's that easy way out. (Thermodynamics? Ha ha.)
We're planning to "tie the knot" for many different reasons. First and foremost because we both feel that we have never known anyone that was such a complete and total "fit". Second, because I have been the Daddy to her daughter since she was 6 months old, and I want to adopt her to make it official. Her real "father" is a real drugged-out, psychotic piece of work, and I never want her to know that he existed. He's a danger to her, physically, emotionally, and mentally. This marriage will be built of stone, not paper, believe me. I have never known anyone that made me feel as secure, wanted, and important as this woman does. I'm not living in some sugar coated world where I'm oblivious to her flaws; everyone has them, including myself, and you guys, too, I'm sure. Divorce is not an option. That's our personal motto, that we have been practicing for awhile. Most arguments and problems that most people use as cause for divorce could be worked through, but people tend to go for the easy way out. I am definitely not a fan of the "D word", just like I'm not a proponent of abortion. I think they're both immoral, but there are certain instances where divorces should be granted (physical/extreme emotional abuse, child abuse, etc.) Not so for abortion; not sure why I even brought it up. My (controversial) opinion on abortion is: Everything happens for a reason. That means everything. Period.
Boy I'd love to be a fly on that wall - sounds totally hot! I've had the pleasure of anal with a few partners, but none was as into it as yours sound, so I count my blessing - usually its to get some on fettered as licking time while I'm down there and the pleasure of watching a nice ass and asshole while I'm doing some doggy work ;-) If I get to bury the bone in the backyard too that's a very welcome bonus (no pun intended). In the mean time I'll just have to imagine those cock craving asses you've found! Have fun!
