When I was first contemplating the idea of sucking a cock, it was my own that I had in mind. At the time, I was at a point in my youth and training, that I was able to suck my own. As it turned out, it was exciting, but too hard and too much trouble. But the thrill of having my own cock in my mouth, taught me that it wasn't all that bad. My wife knew all about my being able to do it and thought it was pretty outrageous. That was when she first started teasing me and told me that I should do it with our gay friend. Since my wife hated doing it and wouldn't do it anymore, she came right out and said that if I wanted a blowjob that bad, I should let our friend suck my cock. I started to check out some gay/bi porn and gave it some thought. After giving it some thought, I came to a logical decision. I didn't want to cheat with a chick, just to get a bj. I'm not a cheater. He has offered to do it everytime he had the opportunity to say something about it. My wife told him that I had done it to myself. That started him on his logical discussion about why we should do it. First he is totally safe and doesn't go with anyone else. He is our very close friend. It would be easy , fun and healthy. Stress relief from a bj is better than any pills. It isn't anything that I wouldn't or haven't already done to myself. I'm not physically able to do that anymore. I came to my decision and followed through with him. It was one of the best logical decisions I ever made. We see each other when he comes up to take care of his property, or on business. Its a quick get together, we give each other bjs and we are on our way. It's no hastle, safe, quite satisfying and I'm sorry I didn't take up on their offer sooner. I don't know about any of you other guys who have "experimented", but although I enjoy our mutual games, I have no desires to do anything more, or with any other guys. If it were a perfect world, my wife would have had a gf who wanted me instead.We could have shared and had some fun, but it didn't turn out that way. Just my Sat morning ramble. What are your thoughts on doing things.
Alot of guys would say that your lieng and that your in the closet...my concern is that sexuality is for enjoyment not about proving something. You probally just dont like anal sex or the idea of it. BJ's sound like a good alternative that is satisfying you. Personally I am interested in sex with people I know and accept and share a tight bond with. Thats where my interest lies, because without that sex is bland, like a salad without the dressing. Quick reply. Have fun and enjoy! All the best!
