We live together, have been dating for over a year, she's stayed with me through a lot of issues I've manifested and often taken out on her. But, now I don't want intimacy. I have serious mental issues, I don't know what to think about this...am I experiencing some symptom of my take on life? am I just unattracted to her? am I too tense? I don't know what to examine, or maybe I do and I am too afraid of it. I am vein tho, is there a way to combat vainity?
That was still a pretty good remark on the spelling though. Talk to her about it. Like I tell everyone. Communication. You need to speak with her about it. Is it something she's been willing to tolerate, or is it something that's been causing complications in the relationship?
you cannot fight that which brings pleasure. Vanity still brings you pleasure, is say be vain and be real, instead of wasting your time with fighting being vain., put it into bieng real too and bieng vain. Vanity is usually mistaken as well. I think of vanity as a form of instinct. It is very anamilistic to be vain. Think about evolution and its contexts with our modern way of life.