A good question! To be truthful I'm not sure there can be chemistry between online contacts. After all, anyone can say anything here. You have no idea if someone is being up front with you, are just pounding there pud. I have met some really cool people here on the forums, and some out right assholes. But, unless I can set down face to face in person, I have no idea what these people are really like. I suspect that the cool people are cool. And the assholes are asshole. But I really don't know.
Precisely. Look at some serial killers that people were just like, "He was just the nicest guy"... Little old lady neighbors and shit. Besides, life would be a bitch if you go around assuming that everybody you come into contact with is potentially full of shit, until you've had a cup of coffee with 'em.
This, this is true. I do have a think for someone online... but I"m not telling. That's how one of my friendships started, I thought I had feelings for him... we me in person, then the more we hung out I relized he was just a really great guy....
I don't think you can feel chemistry for someone over the internet. however, I do believe that if you've been talking to someone, getting along with them, getting to know them, and really enjoy their personality -- if and when you do meet that person, if you feel the instant chemistry, it's likely to consume you rather quickly, as opposed to when you just meet someone for the first time and it takes some time to 'fall' for them. get what I'm saying? Yeah I know nothing about this kind of thing, I'm only guessing.
yes. i can tell instant chemistry whether in person or online. online it's harder to feel, and i don't trust it as much as face to face chemistry. i moved to another continent based on internet chemistry, and still don't regret it. reall strong chemistry (which i refer to as soul compatibility) transmits without limits such as distance or space or time. it's a far more convenient type of communication than words, because it doesn't require an internet connection or pen and paper or a telephone or hell, even words themselves!! it's just there. but then again i'm a crazy pseudo hippy who believes in love connections that are instantaneously head over heels life altering and simultaneously unending.
Awww, I was just kidding... of coarse it's you, I didn't want the others to get jealous (you know how the 'not as good as you' people are around here. )