Recently, me and my XGf started to talk again. We were never really BF and GF but we were together for 3 months before we both went to college and decided not to give each other a "label" because we were both going to college. In fact, we broke it off with each other 2 months before we got to college for a variety of reasons with that being the main one. College comes and she transfers to a campus very near mine, 2 months removed from talking to me. We talk and hook up randomly, but nothing serious or consistent. Anyways, a few months later she gets pregnant with another guy. She was his BF at the time, and she eventually broke up with him for him being a fucked up person and not wanting him in her childs life. We are 19 years old each.(me and her) She moved back home away from my college, but by my house to take care of the baby. She is now 7 months pregnant or something. We have been talking a lot lately and I am incredibly in love with her. She doesn't know this, and I can't tell her cause I don't want to freak her out with only knowing her for a year and being with her for 3 months. She knows that I still have feelings for her, and ever since i Shared that with her(about a month ago) we have been talking a lot. She seems genuinely intersted in me again. At the same time, she's pregnant and as far as I am concerned and she is concerned she's keeping it as of now. Where to go from here... Let me just add on that she has been having sex with a different guy for the past few months. While she's pregnant. As she's expressing interest with me and commenting on us dating in the near future. What the fuck do I do? This girl has been a complete cloud of confusion to me. She likes me but she can't keep her pants on and she loves to fuck. I love her, and she's pregnant with another guys baby. Even if she doesn't kepe the baby, I don't know if I can trust being away from her for 7 months a year while I am at college. Im in love with someone whos pregnant and someone I cant trust. What would you do in this situation, and has anyone had experience with somebody else who is pregnant? Am I running into a tornado here trying to be with this girl after she has a child-- Would it ever work?
You're in lust with this girl, not love buddy... Get over her, she sounds a little fucked up. If you can't trust someone you can't have a long term relationship, easy as that. Or... you could just do the logical thing and put it in her butt.
I'd say find yourself a new girl mate. This girl is going to be really preoccupied being a 19-year old single mom and if you get caught in her emotional crossfire it's going to be hell to pay.
dude get the fuck out and fast. do not have anything to do with that girl. ur obviously smart and way better than this chick. so just find another girl to get ur mind off of this one.
i know what u mean--r u sure its love and not that u really just want 2 fuck her? tell her what u told us and c what she says-- if u 2 are together u may wind up rasing some1 else's kid--if u can live w/that
She's pregnant, in a sexual relationship with another dude and telling you that she is interested in dating you in the future. Sounds like a train wreck... but if you really love her then stop torturing yourself and tell her you want to be with her fine ass.
Wear a condom, put it in her...then RUN! FAST!!! No, but seriously, she's not worth it, man. Sounds like she really has no respect for herself, therefore she'll have no respect for you. She's just looking for a quick money fix for her kid. It's like Octomom: She didn't need the dad, just the kid and a lot of handouts.
Run fast, HARD and far!! Child support, drama, bills, ruined future for her and you. Other men banging her during all of this time and many in future. You are just a shoulder to cry one, a solid rock, maybe a source of income for her. Dont be naive, plenty of women out there!!! PASS THIS ONE!
she's really young. and i can almost guarantee that she has absolutely no idea what she wants. even if you decide that it is love and that you want to be with her, remember its not the last decision you will ever make. that you are free to change your mind. but remember to communicate with her and don't get attached to the kid if you are unsure about the mother, that is a mess just waiting to happen. good luck though.
IDK, all these douche bags gave the same advice as I would. This is a train wreck or in the OP subject to this thread a "Fucked up situation." Best bet for him is to tell her they can always be "friends," then go find another GF.
