I know im a freak but lately I've been dreaming a lot about being chased and then seduced, and it turned me on a great deal. I also dream about just the act of having sex, and some conversations before and after it, with my exhusband mostly. now the thing is, I do have sex still once in a while so its not like im craving it or anything. Does anyone have similar dreams and knows how to get rid of this???
I have similar dreams once and a while as I'm sure many people do. I guess the only way to control your dreams (and I don't claim to know anything about dreams or the psychology behind them) is to learn to get lucid.
well thats the real problem, sometimes i do kind of wake up and continue dreaming but my inner ego wants me to get seduced you know? and i arrange the whole affair to be quite.... to have everything possibly imaginable in it, and thats whats scary, and then i wake up and im just exhausted and guilty i think thats where the real problem is
you're not responsible for your dreams, so there's nothing to be guilty about. you don't have conscious control of them. most dreams with sexual content are your unconscious mind expressing something that's not actually sexual in nature.
I have all types of sexy dreams. Most are good and hot because I have a very positive attitude about sex. They are just dreams and nothing more. Enjoy them.
"some times anna a bananna is just a bananna..." I-ZOMBIE 'I'm 10% artificial and 90% pharmaceutical.''
Many people have sexual dreams, you're just getting yourself worked up over nothing. Learn to enjoy them for what they are and know that there may be a deep meaning or there may be no meaning at all to them. The only difference between you and a ton of other people is that you're remembering them and don't have a problem coming forward about them.
What if a women is fingering herself at the same time ? And why feel guilt ? Its totally normal and healthy.
Your not a freak, most women and men have similar dreams, why lash your self for the one the most normal, and healthy pleasures in life. I'm really angry that some one stands up and thinks they have the right to program your mind and then for the rest of your life you feel dirty or sick or perverted because you think about something that is natural and normal and healthy. Take a stand and say fuck you all, I want hot passionate romantic lovemakeing for the rest of my life without the guilt and crap that some associate with it !!!!
There was a segment from a Charles Bukowski book "Pulp" that was musing on people attempting to analyze someone else's dream. Here it is: But trouble and pain were what kept a man alive. Or trying to avoid trouble and pain. It was a full time job. And sometimes even in sleep you couldn't rest. Last dream I had I was laying under this elephant, I couldn't move and he was releasing one of the biggest turds you ever saw, it was about to drop and then my cat, Hamburger, walked across the top of my head and I awakened. You tell that dream to a shrink and he'll make something awful out of it. Because you are paying him excessively, he's going to make sure you feel bad. He'll tell you that the turd is a penis and you are either frightened of it or that you want it, some crap like that. What he really means is that he is frightened or wants the penis. It's only a dream about a big elephant turd, nothing more. Sometimes things are just what they seem to be and that's all there is to it. The best interpreter of the dream is the dreamer. Keep your money in your pocket. Or bet it on a good horse. --------------------------------------------------------------- I dream about sex all the time, I love it. Enjoy your dreams, whatever they mean to you is actually... what is means! Someone trying to tell you what your dream means = bullshit.
